"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Valentines day

DEEZEDBRAH

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So a simp is a guy going to dinner on Val day?
Some of us do it fluently and as a treat. Same way you train a dog. Give rewards intermittently. Same thing

If you hit your dog everytime it brought you the paper how long until it bites you?
99% are simping.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Its pandering and simping.

Its more likely I Netflix and chill then do anything else out of the ordinary. A event tailored to women for low testosterone men seek transactional sex. Its PATHETIC.

The following is consistent with my perspective on monogamy.
 

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I must be a 1% man. Hey cool
Only you would know. We pretty much agree on most things.

The panel on MLDs channel were trolling guys that were simping last night.

I did more trolling on Valentines day then usual.
 

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So you kiss her buttt all year long?? Hahaha great strategy.
I got news for you gentlemen. Not all girls are going to respond to the deadwood guy that is too tough for holidays. Some of you guys are just tin foil hat types.
Not all girls respond to that? Yeah! Good!
I don't need all girls, I only date an elite of girls I WANT and I have a compatibility with.
Also, you're the kind of guy kissing a$$, even if it's only once a year on Valentine's day. I only kiss her ass for pleasure ;) my pleasure.
 
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It’s here - VDay.

how do you interact with girls you’ve been dating/plates on this day our around this day?

specifically for those who don’t have a LTR girlfriend.

I have a date tomorrow night with a girl I’ve seen a few times, then another after vday with a second girl who seems pretty into me. I have no woman-related plans for actual Valentine’s Day (traveling that day - leaving the state for a few days).
I cooked dinner and took it easy. I do not pay those overpriced meals for a bullsh it holiday.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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