mustfirstregister
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This is one of my favo days and its next week. What are your plans?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
valentines day
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
SoSuaveDude
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lol what's good about valantines day?
Love's Orphan
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I love it. I saved some money last year.
timmylivingalie
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Should a DJ buy his girlfriend anything for valentines day?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
didn't know if i could pull it off until i could find someone to babysit our son for 4 days but i'm going to surprise my wife with a trip to maui on Monday. I figure on tuesday she would be expecting it, so i want to get it in a day early.
as you get older you start to appreciate valentines day for what it is. I ask a ****load from my wife and she does it all with no questions asked with a smile on her face. doesn't ask for anything in return but my love and my commitment to her. That woman is truly devoted to me and our family and I love her for it. so valentines day is all about her. It's not even about the money as much as it is just doing something 1000% for her and no one else.
lol when i was single i used to to go the jazz bars on valentines day alone. you are pretty much guaranteed to get laid by some bar fly who needs some VD lovin, it's kinda like the Christmas thing when people want to be with someone.
In fact, I'm glad you brought that up. lesson to all you DJs out there who have more than one plate.
at some point, a girl is going to ask you what you did for Valentines day. The worst thing you can do is give her an answer. Because uo can't win. If you spent it with another girl you are a scumbag. If you didn't, you are a loser. just tell her not to worry about it and leave it at that regardless of how hard she presses. I don't care if you sat home and jacked off all night
as you get older you start to appreciate valentines day for what it is. I ask a ****load from my wife and she does it all with no questions asked with a smile on her face. doesn't ask for anything in return but my love and my commitment to her. That woman is truly devoted to me and our family and I love her for it. so valentines day is all about her. It's not even about the money as much as it is just doing something 1000% for her and no one else.
lol when i was single i used to to go the jazz bars on valentines day alone. you are pretty much guaranteed to get laid by some bar fly who needs some VD lovin, it's kinda like the Christmas thing when people want to be with someone.
GF yes. a regular plate or girl you have just went on a few dates with no.
In fact, I'm glad you brought that up. lesson to all you DJs out there who have more than one plate.
at some point, a girl is going to ask you what you did for Valentines day. The worst thing you can do is give her an answer. Because uo can't win. If you spent it with another girl you are a scumbag. If you didn't, you are a loser. just tell her not to worry about it and leave it at that regardless of how hard she presses. I don't care if you sat home and jacked off all night
Mike32ct
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Hitting the bar. Gotta break that dry spell somehow.mustfirstregister said:
mustfirstregister
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It's Tomorrow!!!!! I Still Dont Have A Date 
exile663dfx
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Dennys
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
backbreaker
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so I call myself slick and really tried to surprise my wife with the trip to hawaii, so I went through the labor of printing out an envelope and i put the tickets in the mailbox with the mail. even put a little postage stamp on it.
when she got home I wasn't there. I was expecting you know this call from her all excited or what not, didn't come. okay so i walk through the door and she is acting pretty normal. I'm like okay.. hey did you check the mail. yeah i checked it, you didn't get anything lol I'm like humm... you sure you checked the mail. she said yeah i checked it. long story short she thought it was junk mail and didn't bother opening it and threw it away lol. so i had to dig through the trash and get it out and give her the tickets. anyway she's very happy, just didn't go how i planned lol.
when she got home I wasn't there. I was expecting you know this call from her all excited or what not, didn't come. okay so i walk through the door and she is acting pretty normal. I'm like okay.. hey did you check the mail. yeah i checked it, you didn't get anything lol I'm like humm... you sure you checked the mail. she said yeah i checked it. long story short she thought it was junk mail and didn't bother opening it and threw it away lol. so i had to dig through the trash and get it out and give her the tickets. anyway she's very happy, just didn't go how i planned lol.
Alex DeLarge
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fvckin pumped for v-day. hittin the town with my wingman and we're gonna bring some girls home :rockon:
Couldn't be the most obvious "I'm single and need to get laid" day for women!
Couldn't be the most obvious "I'm single and need to get laid" day for women!
wjh
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You don't have to buy sh1t if you don't set a precedent.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
ChalengeGuyFan
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Hahahaha!backbreaker said:
That was so awesome!
mustfirstregister
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LOL i had a date at the last minute!!!!!!!!! took her home and kissed her. I think I will close the deal on the next day!!!! ....you must be sitting at home, watching porn and jerking off hahahahah
i saw something this morning on facebook about valentine's day:
" So today I was in Hallmark buying my mom a Happy Birthday card when I noticed this old man stnding in front of the Valentines card section contemplating which one to get. I decide to go over and I ask him “Are you getting a Valentine’s Day for your wife?” in which he replies 'No my wife died 3 years ago from breast cancer but I still buy her roses and a card and bring them to her grave to prove to her that she was the only one that will ever have my heart' "
what do you guys think about that old man ? DJ ? AFC ? just desperate ?
" So today I was in Hallmark buying my mom a Happy Birthday card when I noticed this old man stnding in front of the Valentines card section contemplating which one to get. I decide to go over and I ask him “Are you getting a Valentine’s Day for your wife?” in which he replies 'No my wife died 3 years ago from breast cancer but I still buy her roses and a card and bring them to her grave to prove to her that she was the only one that will ever have my heart' "
what do you guys think about that old man ? DJ ? AFC ? just desperate ?
I think it's nice. They don't make MEN like that anymore.TheMale said:i saw something this morning on facebook about valentine's day:
" So today I was in Hallmark buying my mom a Happy Birthday card when I noticed this old man stnding in front of the Valentines card section contemplating which one to get. I decide to go over and I ask him “Are you getting a Valentine’s Day for your wife?” in which he replies 'No my wife died 3 years ago from breast cancer but I still buy her roses and a card and bring them to her grave to prove to her that she was the only one that will ever have my heart' "
what do you guys think about that old man ? DJ ? AFC ? just desperate ?
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.