"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Valentines day
- Thread starter Drones200
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
The Shocker
Senior Don Juan
Makes it a lot simpler doesn't it?
If you have someone special, then DO something special with her, not the tired old bullshiat of you buying shiat for her and taking her to some fancy schmancy restaurant.
Take her to a park at night and go stargazing. Bring some blankets obviously.
Or go swimming at night (as long as it isn't too cold).
Anything that's fun, as long as it isn't generic and tired.
You could try singing to her :rockon:Drones200 said:I always hate these day because i suck at giving gifts.
So i was just wondering if any dj's here could give these 16 year old tips on what gifts and how to give it to them to impress that girl on valentines day.
Hmm its just a pictre all her friends getting gifts from there bf's and she not getting any i know will get her upset. Not sure ill be free after school for valentines too =/The Shocker said:No gifts.
Makes it a lot simpler doesn't it?
If you have someone special, then DO something special with her, not the tired old bullshiat of you buying shiat for her and taking her to some fancy schmancy restaurant.
Take her to a park at night and go stargazing. Bring some blankets obviously.
Or go swimming at night (as long as it isn't too cold).
Anything that's fun, as long as it isn't generic and tired.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Something small, meaningful, and most of all, didn't cost a sh!tload of money.Drones200 said:Hmm its just a pictre all her friends getting gifts from there bf's and she not getting any i know will get her upset. Not sure ill be free after school for valentines too =/
Then do what The Shocker said, after the meaningful gifts, take her out on a meaningful date, it may be a good idea to give it to her then, instead of the usual at school crap that everyone does.
The Shocker
Senior Don Juan
Right. If you must buy her something, make sure it has some sort of deeper meaning rather than the 40 dollar price tag. Watch the Christmas episode of The Office from last year. Jim gets Pam a basic coffee pot that she wanted, and then fills it with sentimental items: his high school picture which she always thought was hilarious, a spicy sauce packet from Taco Bell because she puts that on hamburgers and stuff, etc...Lust said:Something small, meaningful, and most of all, didn't cost a sh!tload of money.
Then do what The Shocker said, after the meaningful gifts, take her out on a meaningful date, it may be a good idea to give it to her then, instead of the usual at school crap that everyone does.