"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Valentines day
- Thread starter Drones200
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The Shocker
Senior Don Juan
Makes it a lot simpler doesn't it?
If you have someone special, then DO something special with her, not the tired old bullshiat of you buying shiat for her and taking her to some fancy schmancy restaurant.
Take her to a park at night and go stargazing. Bring some blankets obviously.
Or go swimming at night (as long as it isn't too cold).
Anything that's fun, as long as it isn't generic and tired.
You could try singing to her :rockon:Drones200 said:I always hate these day because i suck at giving gifts.
So i was just wondering if any dj's here could give these 16 year old tips on what gifts and how to give it to them to impress that girl on valentines day.
Hmm its just a pictre all her friends getting gifts from there bf's and she not getting any i know will get her upset. Not sure ill be free after school for valentines too =/The Shocker said:No gifts.
Makes it a lot simpler doesn't it?
If you have someone special, then DO something special with her, not the tired old bullshiat of you buying shiat for her and taking her to some fancy schmancy restaurant.
Take her to a park at night and go stargazing. Bring some blankets obviously.
Or go swimming at night (as long as it isn't too cold).
Anything that's fun, as long as it isn't generic and tired.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Something small, meaningful, and most of all, didn't cost a sh!tload of money.Drones200 said:Hmm its just a pictre all her friends getting gifts from there bf's and she not getting any i know will get her upset. Not sure ill be free after school for valentines too =/
Then do what The Shocker said, after the meaningful gifts, take her out on a meaningful date, it may be a good idea to give it to her then, instead of the usual at school crap that everyone does.
The Shocker
Senior Don Juan
Right. If you must buy her something, make sure it has some sort of deeper meaning rather than the 40 dollar price tag. Watch the Christmas episode of The Office from last year. Jim gets Pam a basic coffee pot that she wanted, and then fills it with sentimental items: his high school picture which she always thought was hilarious, a spicy sauce packet from Taco Bell because she puts that on hamburgers and stuff, etc...Lust said:Something small, meaningful, and most of all, didn't cost a sh!tload of money.
Then do what The Shocker said, after the meaningful gifts, take her out on a meaningful date, it may be a good idea to give it to her then, instead of the usual at school crap that everyone does.