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She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

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Valentines day

Drones200

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I always hate these day because i suck at giving gifts.

So i was just wondering if any dj's here could give these 16 year old tips on what gifts and how to give it to them to impress that girl on valentines day.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Shocker

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No gifts.

Makes it a lot simpler doesn't it?

If you have someone special, then DO something special with her, not the tired old bullshiat of you buying shiat for her and taking her to some fancy schmancy restaurant.

Take her to a park at night and go stargazing. Bring some blankets obviously.

Or go swimming at night (as long as it isn't too cold).

Anything that's fun, as long as it isn't generic and tired.
 

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Drones200 said:
I always hate these day because i suck at giving gifts.

So i was just wondering if any dj's here could give these 16 year old tips on what gifts and how to give it to them to impress that girl on valentines day.
You could try singing to her :rockon:
 

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The Shocker said:
No gifts.

Makes it a lot simpler doesn't it?

If you have someone special, then DO something special with her, not the tired old bullshiat of you buying shiat for her and taking her to some fancy schmancy restaurant.

Take her to a park at night and go stargazing. Bring some blankets obviously.

Or go swimming at night (as long as it isn't too cold).

Anything that's fun, as long as it isn't generic and tired.
Hmm its just a pictre all her friends getting gifts from there bf's and she not getting any i know will get her upset. Not sure ill be free after school for valentines too =/
 

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Well just give her something that you feel is right.

See how it goes. There is no standard way to deal with these things as far as I can see.
 

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Drones200 said:
Hmm its just a pictre all her friends getting gifts from there bf's and she not getting any i know will get her upset. Not sure ill be free after school for valentines too =/
Something small, meaningful, and most of all, didn't cost a sh!tload of money.

Then do what The Shocker said, after the meaningful gifts, take her out on a meaningful date, it may be a good idea to give it to her then, instead of the usual at school crap that everyone does.
 

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Lust said:
Something small, meaningful, and most of all, didn't cost a sh!tload of money.

Then do what The Shocker said, after the meaningful gifts, take her out on a meaningful date, it may be a good idea to give it to her then, instead of the usual at school crap that everyone does.
Right. If you must buy her something, make sure it has some sort of deeper meaning rather than the 40 dollar price tag. Watch the Christmas episode of The Office from last year. Jim gets Pam a basic coffee pot that she wanted, and then fills it with sentimental items: his high school picture which she always thought was hilarious, a spicy sauce packet from Taco Bell because she puts that on hamburgers and stuff, etc...
 
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