"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Valentine's Day Was Co-Opted By Feminists Around 1981

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I would strongly advise against celebrating Valentine's Day if you want to keep your self-respect as a man. What was originally a day in which men rewarded women for being good submissive, subordinate partners morphed into a day for making men toe the feminist line.

He "better" get me flowers. He "better" step it up a notch. And so on.

Be a man this Valentine's Day and don't celebrate. Just tell your date, "I don't like what it's become." And leave it at that.

Fr. Andrew
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Looks like someone doesn't have a valentine
 

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Danger said:
What that means is, I get gifts as well. Make the habit of asking your girl what she is giving you for valentines day.
If you can make Valentine's Day into something other than what it currently is in popular culture, more power to you.

As is, it might as well be called "National Feminist Day."
 

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on vday she better swallow the nut lolz
 

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Danger said:
I have a valentine, more importantly, SHE has one too.

What that means is, I get gifts as well. Make the habit of asking your girl what she is giving you for valentines day.

A strong frame and expectations are everything.
This.

If you date the right kind of woman, there's no reason to not be getting gifts and great treatment on special days in the year.

Even if youre casually dating, and she gets you a card, some chocolates, cooks dinner and you have some really good sex that night...that's a good V-day right there. This is what Im expecting with my lady. We arent going to do expensive gifts or flowers and junk...but I already know shes the kinda girl to do the other stuff in order to show me she cares and values me.

Whenever I see dudes complain about V-day, I know they are dating selfish women. Do a google search. A fair amount of women go out of their way to do something nice for their man, and try to make it a day about both of them...not just her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Fr. Andrew said:
I would strongly advise against celebrating Valentine's Day if you want to keep your self-respect as a man. What was originally a day in which men rewarded women for being good submissive, subordinate partners morphed into a day for making men toe the feminist line.

He "better" get me flowers. He "better" step it up a notch. And so on.

Be a man this Valentine's Day and don't celebrate. Just tell your date, "I don't like what it's become." And leave it at that.

Fr. Andrew
Agreed.

Valentine's day is industry. It's fraud and scam.It generates big profits for greedy people because they know they can sell huge amount of trash on that particular day.

Women abuse it to get gifts,men abuse to get *****,industry abuse it to get profits.It's sick to the core.
 

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