"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Valentine's Day Was Co-Opted By Feminists Around 1981

Fr. Andrew

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 9, 2015
Messages
17
Reaction score
2
I would strongly advise against celebrating Valentine's Day if you want to keep your self-respect as a man. What was originally a day in which men rewarded women for being good submissive, subordinate partners morphed into a day for making men toe the feminist line.

He "better" get me flowers. He "better" step it up a notch. And so on.

Be a man this Valentine's Day and don't celebrate. Just tell your date, "I don't like what it's become." And leave it at that.

Fr. Andrew
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Dhoulmagus

Banned
Joined
Sep 11, 2013
Messages
1,695
Reaction score
169
Looks like someone doesn't have a valentine
 

Fr. Andrew

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 9, 2015
Messages
17
Reaction score
2
Danger said:
What that means is, I get gifts as well. Make the habit of asking your girl what she is giving you for valentines day.
If you can make Valentine's Day into something other than what it currently is in popular culture, more power to you.

As is, it might as well be called "National Feminist Day."
 

Julian

Banned
Joined
Jul 30, 2003
Messages
4,754
Reaction score
1,216
on vday she better swallow the nut lolz
 

Jaylan

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 8, 2011
Messages
3,119
Reaction score
133
Danger said:
I have a valentine, more importantly, SHE has one too.

What that means is, I get gifts as well. Make the habit of asking your girl what she is giving you for valentines day.

A strong frame and expectations are everything.
This.

If you date the right kind of woman, there's no reason to not be getting gifts and great treatment on special days in the year.

Even if youre casually dating, and she gets you a card, some chocolates, cooks dinner and you have some really good sex that night...that's a good V-day right there. This is what Im expecting with my lady. We arent going to do expensive gifts or flowers and junk...but I already know shes the kinda girl to do the other stuff in order to show me she cares and values me.

Whenever I see dudes complain about V-day, I know they are dating selfish women. Do a google search. A fair amount of women go out of their way to do something nice for their man, and try to make it a day about both of them...not just her.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

JohnyTheArrow

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 17, 2014
Messages
466
Reaction score
139
Fr. Andrew said:
I would strongly advise against celebrating Valentine's Day if you want to keep your self-respect as a man. What was originally a day in which men rewarded women for being good submissive, subordinate partners morphed into a day for making men toe the feminist line.

He "better" get me flowers. He "better" step it up a notch. And so on.

Be a man this Valentine's Day and don't celebrate. Just tell your date, "I don't like what it's become." And leave it at that.

Fr. Andrew
Agreed.

Valentine's day is industry. It's fraud and scam.It generates big profits for greedy people because they know they can sell huge amount of trash on that particular day.

Women abuse it to get gifts,men abuse to get *****,industry abuse it to get profits.It's sick to the core.
 

Victory Unlimited

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 3, 2005
Messages
1,357
Reaction score
313
Location
On the Frontlines
Top