"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Valentine's Day Was Co-Opted By Feminists Around 1981

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I would strongly advise against celebrating Valentine's Day if you want to keep your self-respect as a man. What was originally a day in which men rewarded women for being good submissive, subordinate partners morphed into a day for making men toe the feminist line.

He "better" get me flowers. He "better" step it up a notch. And so on.

Be a man this Valentine's Day and don't celebrate. Just tell your date, "I don't like what it's become." And leave it at that.

Fr. Andrew
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Looks like someone doesn't have a valentine
 

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Danger said:
What that means is, I get gifts as well. Make the habit of asking your girl what she is giving you for valentines day.
If you can make Valentine's Day into something other than what it currently is in popular culture, more power to you.

As is, it might as well be called "National Feminist Day."
 

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on vday she better swallow the nut lolz
 

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Danger said:
I have a valentine, more importantly, SHE has one too.

What that means is, I get gifts as well. Make the habit of asking your girl what she is giving you for valentines day.

A strong frame and expectations are everything.
This.

If you date the right kind of woman, there's no reason to not be getting gifts and great treatment on special days in the year.

Even if youre casually dating, and she gets you a card, some chocolates, cooks dinner and you have some really good sex that night...that's a good V-day right there. This is what Im expecting with my lady. We arent going to do expensive gifts or flowers and junk...but I already know shes the kinda girl to do the other stuff in order to show me she cares and values me.

Whenever I see dudes complain about V-day, I know they are dating selfish women. Do a google search. A fair amount of women go out of their way to do something nice for their man, and try to make it a day about both of them...not just her.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Fr. Andrew said:
I would strongly advise against celebrating Valentine's Day if you want to keep your self-respect as a man. What was originally a day in which men rewarded women for being good submissive, subordinate partners morphed into a day for making men toe the feminist line.

He "better" get me flowers. He "better" step it up a notch. And so on.

Be a man this Valentine's Day and don't celebrate. Just tell your date, "I don't like what it's become." And leave it at that.

Fr. Andrew
Agreed.

Valentine's day is industry. It's fraud and scam.It generates big profits for greedy people because they know they can sell huge amount of trash on that particular day.

Women abuse it to get gifts,men abuse to get *****,industry abuse it to get profits.It's sick to the core.
 

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