“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

Valentines Day: Question for those spinning plates

speakeasy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 4, 2006
Messages
2,776
Reaction score
77
I'll admit, I've never spun multiple plates as once, but there's a chance that I may be very soon. As I was doing some grocery shopping and saw all the Valentines decoration it hit me. If you are spinning plates, how do you handle Valentines? Any girl you're seeing is going to want to go out the night of Valentines Day. I can't imagine saying, "Uhhh, I don't feel like going out for Valentines Day." How do you handle that situation where you might be dating different girls and they all want to do something on Valentines?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

J Roc

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 7, 2007
Messages
720
Reaction score
35
Location
Atlanta
I'm a tom leykis listener and i avoid all of my women around valentines day and then hookup with them afterwards. im not going to get suckered into buying any woman dinner or gifts on this special "romantic' day.
 

J Roc

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 7, 2007
Messages
720
Reaction score
35
Location
Atlanta
speakeasy said:
I can't imagine saying, "Uhhh, I don't feel like going out for Valentines Day."
You're a man and you do what you want to do. if you dont want to go out then dont! stop letting women pressure you into spending your hard earned money and time on sh1t you dont want to do.
 

mpimpin

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 26, 2006
Messages
1,746
Reaction score
14
Location
Bama
you avoid the hell out of them around V day! Or do a lunch date and then dinner date make an excuse why you can't go to dinner with the lunch girl.

Tell them you take your mother out on V-day since your dad died or you have a family gathering, you have to work etc.

I got lucky last year I had about a two hour distance between my plates and the distance wasn't feasible on Vday cause my Jeep had just died.
 

Jitterbug

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 12, 2008
Messages
3,197
Reaction score
140
I don't celebrate Vagina Day even if I'm in a LTR.

theunflushables said:
Just tell them you don't believe in a holiday that's shoved down our throats so card companies, chocolate companies, and jewelers can make money.
That's pretty much what I do, and I often add that I don't celebrate an American holiday (as I live in Australia).

Be prepared to lose a plate or two after that though. I lost one last year for that reason, although that night I took a bunch of single girls out for drinks after dance class for a group V-Day celebration and ended up with a new plate.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

The Bat

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 12, 2007
Messages
1,017
Reaction score
60
Just tell them you spend V-day with your mother since she is the most important woman in your life.
 
Top