"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Valentine's Day - Desperation is real

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Don't know if anyone has been noticing but the desperate girls have been coming out of the woodwork recently... I've already got 4 dates lined up for next week via OLD and a handful of numbers to follow up upon...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yay, Hallmark holiday. The day where everyone feels pressured to woo another human being. Restaurant's create a special menu for the evening and jack up the prices, while all the best places book up days/weeks/months in advance. You buy a shiny and she's like "awww.. thanks" (and puts in the back of her jewelry drawer, lol.). Awesome cabin escape in the snow? Taken, lol. Honestly, I don't miss v-day with the ex, I always felt pressured to buy the perfect gift or plan the perfect evening. I don't miss the anxiety of it all. :D

 
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aka Woman's Day.
 
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Now, be a good boyfriend, and bow to the V!

(Verbal irony)
 
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If men were smart, we would have put an end to Valentines Day, Engagement Rings, and Fancy Weddings all centered around the female when we gave them equal rights. There is no point in that stuff these days. Now they got their cake and get to eat it too. No wonder they have entitlement issues, they have been enabled.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Howiestern said:
If men were smart, we would have put an end to Valentines Day, Engagement Rings, and Fancy Weddings all centered around the female when we gave them equal rights. There is no point in that stuff these days. Now they got their cake and get to eat it too. No wonder they have entitlement issues, they have been enabled.
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I already did. :cool:
 
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Howiestern said:
If men were smart, we would have put an end to Valentines Day, Engagement Rings, and Fancy Weddings all centered around the female when we gave them equal rights. There is no point in that stuff these days. Now they got their cake and get to eat it too. No wonder they have entitlement issues, they have been enabled.
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From a business standpoint, I like the way the diamond and jewelry industry has equated their product advertising with female love for a man. Aka by this and she loves you, get a larger one and she loves you more.
 
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