I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I already did.If men were smart, we would have put an end to Valentines Day, Engagement Rings, and Fancy Weddings all centered around the female when we gave them equal rights. There is no point in that stuff these days. Now they got their cake and get to eat it too. No wonder they have entitlement issues, they have been enabled.
From a business standpoint, I like the way the diamond and jewelry industry has equated their product advertising with female love for a man. Aka by this and she loves you, get a larger one and she loves you more.If men were smart, we would have put an end to Valentines Day, Engagement Rings, and Fancy Weddings all centered around the female when we gave them equal rights. There is no point in that stuff these days. Now they got their cake and get to eat it too. No wonder they have entitlement issues, they have been enabled.