Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Agreed. When your single it's nothing really. Doesn't bother me.Originally posted by ShizamDaMan
I'll probably just go to the gym and tell random hot girls "Happy Valentines day" inbetween sets.
But seriously, it's just another day of the year to me. Nothing inherently special about it.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Ooo... double ooo...Originally posted by Distant Light
This topic gave me an idea of coming up with a valentines day opener to use on that day.![]()
Down here in Ecuador, I can get 25 roses for 1 american dollar. Pretty cheap and it does wonders.Originally posted by Fash
I personally think that doing anything major on Valentines day is a complete waste of money!
Rose prices are astronomical, restaurants put on special menues that are ridiculously expensive, and you can never seem to find the right present.
From experience, trying to show your lady a "good" time on valentines day (present, dinner) is gonna set you back £250+.
I find that spending the evening indoors where you cook her a meal (even if it comes out crap, she will appreciate the effort), bottle of champagne, and some sexy underwear for her tends to do the trick. Present + dinner + champagne = less then £100.
+ having her in a comfortable environment is bound to lead to the bedroom, for sure!