"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Valentines Day 2006

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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gimmeyofonenumba

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nope, and I dont think i will, had alot of things happen recently, but I rememeber valentines 05 was the reason i came to this site and started reading stuff. I have made gigantic improvements and have had some losses, but still havent found a LTR like i wanted.
 
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im thinking of doing something rather normal. it's been a while since i let myself be afc.

so im just gonna take my girl out to the movies, then for a nice desert. nothing weird... just normal. i don't think one should overdo valentines.

*shrug*
 
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Heh.. AFCed my last V-day, when I took a friend of a friend out that I didn't know to well. Talked 90(me)-10(her) to her, and was suddenly surprised when there never was a follow up date after that. Hah. nervousness then, but that seems gone now.

:crackup:

Hopefuly, this year will yield better results. If not it's another year of single awareness day! Yay!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'll probably just go to the gym and tell random hot girls "Happy Valentines day" inbetween sets.

But seriously, it's just another day of the year to me. Nothing inherently special about it.
 
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Originally posted by ShizamDaMan
I'll probably just go to the gym and tell random hot girls "Happy Valentines day" inbetween sets.

But seriously, it's just another day of the year to me. Nothing inherently special about it.
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Agreed. When your single it's nothing really. Doesn't bother me.
 
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Im going to a concert. Nonpoint and sevendust. I get to rockout to the extreme and get wasted. Rockin out comes first, girls in a close second.
 
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I'll probably fck another hot model looking dude with ripped abs, chisled jaw, etc... and then come home, change my number, and be lonely =[.

Lmfao @ "single awareness day" :crackup:

:(
 
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work, go home, watch porn, go to sleep.....

unless something changes from now to then (very possible)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Haha.

Not unless I actually decide to quit playing and stick with one. Not likely by then.
 
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nothing here. I have never hooked up on Valentines day or any holiday for that matter :(
 
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So guys, anyone here going to do any cold approach this V day? I think this is the best day to make approaches.. since its easy to spot the "singles". Im thinking of doing it.. for the first time in my friggin life
 
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This topic gave me an idea of coming up with a valentines day opener to use on that day. :D
 
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Originally posted by Distant Light
This topic gave me an idea of coming up with a valentines day opener to use on that day. :D
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Ooo... double ooo...

So what is it? :-/
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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When is valentine's day?

I probably won't celebrate it much. no GF at the current moment, although it is a good time to hit on girls.
 
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I personally think that doing anything major on Valentines day is a complete waste of money!

Rose prices are astronomical, restaurants put on special menues that are ridiculously expensive, and you can never seem to find the right present.

From experience, trying to show your lady a "good" time on valentines day (present, dinner) is gonna set you back £250+.

I find that spending the evening indoors where you cook her a meal (even if it comes out crap, she will appreciate the effort), bottle of champagne, and some sexy underwear for her tends to do the trick. Present + dinner + champagne = less then £100.

+ having her in a comfortable environment is bound to lead to the bedroom, for sure!
 
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Originally posted by Fash
I personally think that doing anything major on Valentines day is a complete waste of money!

Rose prices are astronomical, restaurants put on special menues that are ridiculously expensive, and you can never seem to find the right present.

From experience, trying to show your lady a "good" time on valentines day (present, dinner) is gonna set you back £250+.

I find that spending the evening indoors where you cook her a meal (even if it comes out crap, she will appreciate the effort), bottle of champagne, and some sexy underwear for her tends to do the trick. Present + dinner + champagne = less then £100.

+ having her in a comfortable environment is bound to lead to the bedroom, for sure!
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Down here in Ecuador, I can get 25 roses for 1 american dollar. Pretty cheap and it does wonders.
 
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