"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Valentines Day 2006

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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nope, and I dont think i will, had alot of things happen recently, but I rememeber valentines 05 was the reason i came to this site and started reading stuff. I have made gigantic improvements and have had some losses, but still havent found a LTR like i wanted.
 
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im thinking of doing something rather normal. it's been a while since i let myself be afc.

so im just gonna take my girl out to the movies, then for a nice desert. nothing weird... just normal. i don't think one should overdo valentines.

*shrug*
 
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Heh.. AFCed my last V-day, when I took a friend of a friend out that I didn't know to well. Talked 90(me)-10(her) to her, and was suddenly surprised when there never was a follow up date after that. Hah. nervousness then, but that seems gone now.

:crackup:

Hopefuly, this year will yield better results. If not it's another year of single awareness day! Yay!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'll probably just go to the gym and tell random hot girls "Happy Valentines day" inbetween sets.

But seriously, it's just another day of the year to me. Nothing inherently special about it.
 
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Originally posted by ShizamDaMan
I'll probably just go to the gym and tell random hot girls "Happy Valentines day" inbetween sets.

But seriously, it's just another day of the year to me. Nothing inherently special about it.
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Agreed. When your single it's nothing really. Doesn't bother me.
 
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Im going to a concert. Nonpoint and sevendust. I get to rockout to the extreme and get wasted. Rockin out comes first, girls in a close second.
 
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I'll probably fck another hot model looking dude with ripped abs, chisled jaw, etc... and then come home, change my number, and be lonely =[.

Lmfao @ "single awareness day" :crackup:

:(
 
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work, go home, watch porn, go to sleep.....

unless something changes from now to then (very possible)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Haha.

Not unless I actually decide to quit playing and stick with one. Not likely by then.
 
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nothing here. I have never hooked up on Valentines day or any holiday for that matter :(
 
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So guys, anyone here going to do any cold approach this V day? I think this is the best day to make approaches.. since its easy to spot the "singles". Im thinking of doing it.. for the first time in my friggin life
 
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This topic gave me an idea of coming up with a valentines day opener to use on that day. :D
 
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Originally posted by Distant Light
This topic gave me an idea of coming up with a valentines day opener to use on that day. :D
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Ooo... double ooo...

So what is it? :-/
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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When is valentine's day?

I probably won't celebrate it much. no GF at the current moment, although it is a good time to hit on girls.
 
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I personally think that doing anything major on Valentines day is a complete waste of money!

Rose prices are astronomical, restaurants put on special menues that are ridiculously expensive, and you can never seem to find the right present.

From experience, trying to show your lady a "good" time on valentines day (present, dinner) is gonna set you back £250+.

I find that spending the evening indoors where you cook her a meal (even if it comes out crap, she will appreciate the effort), bottle of champagne, and some sexy underwear for her tends to do the trick. Present + dinner + champagne = less then £100.

+ having her in a comfortable environment is bound to lead to the bedroom, for sure!
 
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Originally posted by Fash
I personally think that doing anything major on Valentines day is a complete waste of money!

Rose prices are astronomical, restaurants put on special menues that are ridiculously expensive, and you can never seem to find the right present.

From experience, trying to show your lady a "good" time on valentines day (present, dinner) is gonna set you back £250+.

I find that spending the evening indoors where you cook her a meal (even if it comes out crap, she will appreciate the effort), bottle of champagne, and some sexy underwear for her tends to do the trick. Present + dinner + champagne = less then £100.

+ having her in a comfortable environment is bound to lead to the bedroom, for sure!
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Down here in Ecuador, I can get 25 roses for 1 american dollar. Pretty cheap and it does wonders.
 
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