Valentine Wish

[Juando]

I got a little blue a couple of days ago thinking about VDay. Even though I regard it as a "hallmark holiday" the fact that so many people get energized about it does alter the atmosphere a bit.

I got blue thinking about the ex, wishing my situation was more tidy, satisfying.

Now I'm glad I went through the blueness. A good friend talked me through a lot of it and I felt more centered the next day.

In a way I got a taste of the downside of the matrix. I shudder to think all the people who dread VDay because for them it's another opportunity to rub salt in whatever relationship wounds they have. I and many of you are fortunate to have the resources we have, not least this one.

Obviously the value we get is not about VDay, which ultimately is a sentimental pimple on the butt of reality, but in other infinitely more substantial ways.

So I take this opportunity, hinging on what ultimately is an empty calorie event, to appreciate all of you and what you contribute to me in so many real ways.

Point is, we are all unique here, all of us in varying situations and hopefully evolving on our paths, but what we have is each other, for better or worse.
Who knows how long it will last but I for one cannot entirely put into words the my appreciation for the value I've gotten.

Thanks and HAPPY VALENTINE'S, guys!! :flowers:

 

[Last Man Standing]

Why are you trying to make me cry? Damn you!!!!

 

[MacAvoy]

Why are you trying to make me cry? Damn you!!!!

HAHA I don't know whats come over this last week, you've been pretty soft. First a post without the word hor and now this. What's this world coming to?

 

[just so suave]

So I take this opportunity, hinging on what ultimately is an empty calorie event, to appreciate all of you and what you contribute to me in so many real ways.

Point is, we are all unique here, all of us in varying situations and hopefully evolving on our paths, but what we have is each other, for better or worse.
Who knows how long it will last but I for one cannot entirely put into words the my appreciation for the value I've gotten.

You're so sweet, any girl would be lucky to have you...LOL

 

[ThunderMaverick]

I like this side of Dr. P!! It's nice. I really hope we don't lose the other side though. =D

Yeah it's valentine's day and LOST night with me and the ex.


She asked me before I cut her off: "So this means you won't be coming over thursday for lost?"?

Just gave her a flat out "No."

Damn, I'll miss that. LOST was our show.

Oh well! I think you guys here are most important to me in my life right now. I don't know where else I could get so much support and life wisdom. Thanks to all of you!!

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY! :rockon: :flowers:

 

[romangod]

Point is, we are all unique here, all of us in varying situations and hopefully evolving on our paths, but what we have is each other, for better or worse.
Who knows how long it will last but I for one cannot entirely put into words the my appreciation for the value I've gotten.

Thanks and HAPPY VALENTINE'S, guys!! :flowers:

Thank you for your wonderful thoughts. Yes, we are all unique here and I like to think that the majority are good people at varying points on their road to becoming Mature Men. Have a great day. Cheers!

 

[mrRuckus]

I'm sure this day depresses far more people than it brings joy to.

I just had a female friend txt me saying she's depressed and she knows it's stupid to be depressed about it and that makes her feel bad so she's in a "shame spiral." Haha. Then I said "weel u b mi ballentine" and she asked if i'd buy her dinner. I said "crazy talk."

I really don't care at all having no gf or anything today. I don't like holidays in general. They're such a pain in the ass. I like days like st. patrick's day since they're so simple. You just go and have a few beers, spread some cheer, and there's no pressure to buy people sh1t or make long drives to see family or anything.

 

[iqqi]

Awww, Happy Valentines Day, Juando! And the rest of ya's.

TM- I LOVE lost!

 

[thirdtimescharm]

You're so sweet, any girl would be lucky to have you...LOL

Girl? Forget that. I'm getting a sex-change just so I can go out with him.

 

[Juando]

Girl? Forget that. I'm getting a sex-change just so I can go out with him.

Sorry, my dance card is full.


I was working last night and I texted my plate to tell her where I was "in case she was in the neighborhood", left the number.

She buzzed in without calling and got a foot massage.

We never talked about Valentine's, skipped the subject, but I could feel it in the air, creating tension. Did not want to "do" Valentine w/her- she's not my gf, too "heavy".

I told her I was going for a hike Sunday and she was invited.
No, she says, what if we get excited and then I want to spend the night?
No good, Monday follows- so the plan became Saturday, she's making dinner, and I have a feeling we're going to get excited.

Now I don't take credit for masterminding this scenario, but I did play along on an instinctive level- I'm convinced that the energy around Valentine's created tension that was somewhat released with the date planning.

The rest of the tension will be released in a couple of days.

 

[guru1000]

Plate Valentines Day

Time to get my house in order

1st Place -Spends Valentines with me
2nd Place- Plate Status
3 +4th Place- Get the boot

:trouble:

 

[Juando]

Plate Valentines Day

Time to get my house in order

1st Place -Spends Valentines with me
2nd Place- Plate Status
3 +4th Place- Get the boot

:trouble:

My no. 3 plate, who flaked on me a week ago, texted me that she tried to mail me "something sexy" but had a problem with the mailman...

I'm trying to stay firm in NEXTING her, but she is superhot.

Here was my response:


Sexy packages don't need a mailman.
They deliver themselves to the male man.

 

[Adam007]

Valentine's Day is a day
Meant for sharing.
A day for giving,
For loving and caring.​

Wishing You
The nicest things
That life can bring your way,
And that's not just
A Valentine Wish
It's meant for every day!​