"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
V-Day 'Friend' Date
- Thread starter BradSmint
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Egoist
Master Don Juan
valentines day is reserved for those you truly care about, not some FBs or "friends"
letmeshowyou
Don Juan
Do it
I had two chicks ask me to take her out that day. The first one I have actually gotten a little play from. The second one is pretty much just a friend (although she has been mighty frisky lately!).
I actually called girl #1 to ask if she still wanted to go out that day. She said she didn't remember us talking about it so she had made plans to babysit someones kid. She was pretty drunk both times she mentioned it so I can buy her story. She even tried to arrange for us to go out this coming weekend instead. Point is, I was willing to take this one out because I would have likely gotten some action in return.
The other one....well.....there's a possibily of getting some from her also, but I've known her for years and I wouldn't take a chance on spending more than a few bucks on her without any kind of a clear idea that I would be rewarded.
I know it sounds bad, but that's the way it is. If you aren't romantically involved with a chick why would you want to reward her on this mother-of-all chick holidays, without getting something in return?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
S.Y.M.
Save Your Money.
Investment versus return = Don't commit to buy anything that wont show a dividend. This girl wont show one and V-Day is an occasion just swimming in opportunities if you know which rocks to look under.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
Don't go play 'pity friend' with any girl tonight. Call up your best wing man and sarge on the best night of the year to sarge. Wedding receptions aren't even as good as V-Day for this.
NorPacWolf
Senior Don Juan
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If you're paying for dinner, definitely not. If they are truly "just friends", go out with them for a beer or two, and exploit them as pivots and social proof. Don't pay for the beer either lol.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
reyalp
Master Don Juan
ding ding ding
we have a winner
i'm taking a 7.5 out for dinner, an 8.5 out for drinks, and if nothing happens with the drinks, i've got an HB9 who wants to hang out "just as friends and to be my designated driver," perfect pivot material!
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
KarmaSutra
Banned
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- Oct 13, 2005
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THIS is now part of my fvcking vernacular!
Absolutely perfect senseai.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Egoist
Master Don Juan
genuis.
this is one of the more important things i've learned in the past year.