V-Day 'Friend' Date

[BradSmint]

V-Day Question....

Should I take out one hot female friend or two to a v-day dinner?

 

[Egoist]

absolutely not.

valentines day is reserved for those you truly care about, not some FBs or "friends"

 

[letmeshowyou]

if you don't have anything else planned, why not?

Do it

 

[BradSmint]

Originally posted by Egoist
absolutely not.

valentines day is reserved for those you truly care about, not some FBs or "friends"

i truly care about them. one i'm trying to get with now though.

 

[STR8UP]

I don't think I would do it without at least some kind of idea that you might get something in return.

I had two chicks ask me to take her out that day. The first one I have actually gotten a little play from. The second one is pretty much just a friend (although she has been mighty frisky lately!).

I actually called girl #1 to ask if she still wanted to go out that day. She said she didn't remember us talking about it so she had made plans to babysit someones kid. She was pretty drunk both times she mentioned it so I can buy her story. She even tried to arrange for us to go out this coming weekend instead. Point is, I was willing to take this one out because I would have likely gotten some action in return.

The other one....well.....there's a possibily of getting some from her also, but I've known her for years and I wouldn't take a chance on spending more than a few bucks on her without any kind of a clear idea that I would be rewarded.

I know it sounds bad, but that's the way it is. If you aren't romantically involved with a chick why would you want to reward her on this mother-of-all chick holidays, without getting something in return?

 

[Warlord]

Sit back, relax with a beer. No need to jump for joy to get a date with another ho on a hallmark card holiday.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Son, let me tell you something a wise man once told me:

S.Y.M.

Save Your Money.

Investment versus return = Don't commit to buy anything that wont show a dividend. This girl wont show one and V-Day is an occasion just swimming in opportunities if you know which rocks to look under.

 

[BradSmint]

you guys are right.... now i'm having second thoughts on this whole thing. FU!K!~! What should i do... what should i do?

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Valentine's Day is ripe with opportunity for the DJ with the ability to see it. Go hit the clubs tonight, particularly the ones that cater to a 25-40 y.o. affluent crowd. You'll notice impromptu GNOs (girl's night out) set up just for this occasion to prove to themselves "they don't need men to have a good time." A good PUA couldn't arrange a better opportunity to hook up in multiple sets.

Don't go play 'pity friend' with any girl tonight. Call up your best wing man and sarge on the best night of the year to sarge. Wedding receptions aren't even as good as V-Day for this.

 

[NorPacWolf]

Re: V-Day Question....

If you're paying for dinner, definitely not. If they are truly "just friends", go out with them for a beer or two, and exploit them as pivots and social proof. Don't pay for the beer either lol.

Originally posted by BradSmint
Should I take out one hot female friend or two to a v-day dinner?

 

[reyalp]

Re: Re: V-Day Question....

Originally posted by NorPacWolf
If you're paying for dinner, definitely not. If they are truly "just friends", go out with them for a beer or two, and exploit them as pivots and social proof. Don't pay for the beer either lol.

ding ding ding
we have a winner

i'm taking a 7.5 out for dinner, an 8.5 out for drinks, and if nothing happens with the drinks, i've got an HB9 who wants to hang out "just as friends and to be my designated driver," perfect pivot material!

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Women have 2 kinds of 'friends', boyfriends and girlfriends. If you are not fvcking her, you're her girlfriend.

 

[KarmaSutra]

Originally posted by Rollo Tomassi
Women have 2 kinds of 'friends', boyfriends and girlfriends. If you are not fvcking her, you're her girlfriend.

THIS is now part of my fvcking vernacular!

Absolutely perfect senseai.

 

[BradSmint]

all i'm gonna say is... you guys were right. I learned my lesson... never again. What a waste of money

 

[STR8UP]

Don't worry, even though I didn't take anyone out, my night was pretty sh!tty too. I got the pleasure of hanging out with a girl who used half a dozen four letter words within the first 30 seconds of meeting her, claimed to be a porn star who had done 300 and some odd movies, and poured a shot of Jager into my delicious Belgian beer. Needless to say I didn't ask for her number...

 

[Egoist]

Originally posted by Rollo Tomassi
Women have 2 kinds of 'friends', boyfriends and girlfriends. If you are not fvcking her, you're her girlfriend.

genuis.

this is one of the more important things i've learned in the past year.