Utah Man Has Poor Frame When Dating Multiple Women, Gets Caught Due to Social Media

[SW15]

This is a crazy story! Some guy with a girlfriend is doing approaches in the makeup aisle at Walmart. He got himself a date with a woman in the 3.5 - 4.5 range, who discovered he had a girlfriend. She located his girlfriend via social media. Apparently, he had actually cheated on her before.

I think Utah is relevant to this. Even in big city Salt Lake City, there is a different dating culture there as compared to more conventional larger cities in the USA. Salt Lake City has a high Mormon population. Mormons typically are married before 25 and start having children soon. Mormons also abstain from alcohol. The girl on TikTok that got approached in the makeup aisle at Walmart does not appear to be Mormon at all.

Utah Woman Realized The Man She Was On A Date With Is Engaged, So She Took To Social Media To Find & Alert His Fiancé (msn.com)

 

[corrector]

That's why you gotta put the phone in Do Not Disturb mode.

She located his name on social media. What does that have to do with DND mode?

 

[SW15]

That's why you gotta put the phone in Do Not Disturb mode.

Yes. This is good. Or, leave the phone in the car/not carry it on him on dates. His mismanagement of his phone alerted the woman that there was some possible red flag.

I was impressed that he did approaches at Walmart. While I have done approaches at more traditional grocery chain stores, I have never done approaches at Walmart.

 

[corrector]

What does it matter how hot the girl is he was planning to cheat on? The guy should not have sought cheated if he is engaged to get married. Imagine what a terrible husband he would be if he is like that before marrying her.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

This is a crazy story! Some guy with a girlfriend is doing approaches in the makeup aisle at Walmart. He got himself a date with a woman in the 3.5 - 4.5 range, who discovered he had a girlfriend. She located his girlfriend via social media. Apparently, he had actually cheated on her before.

I think Utah is relevant to this. Even in big city Salt Lake City, there is a different dating culture there as compared to more conventional larger cities in the USA. Salt Lake City has a high Mormon population. Mormons typically are married before 25 and start having children soon. Mormons also abstain from alcohol. The girl on TikTok that got approached in the makeup aisle at Walmart does not appear to be Mormon at all.

Utah Woman Realized The Man She Was On A Date With Is Engaged, So She Took To Social Media To Find & Alert His Fiancé (msn.com)

Mormons also practice polygamy so I am not sure what the problem is, that should be normal out there for dudes to be dating multiple people.

 

[corrector]

Mormons also practice polygamy so I am not sure what the problem is, that should be normal out there for dudes to be dating multiple people.

They obviously weren't Mormon. It's not dating multiple women if you are lying and cheating. He lied to her obviously about not having a girlfriend/being engaged.

 

[SW15]

Mormons also practice polygamy so I am not sure what the problem is, that should be normal out there for dudes to be dating multiple people.

Mainstream Mormons do not practice polygamy anymore and it hasn't been a common church practice in 100+ years.

Do Mormons Still Practice Polygamy?

No matter what you have seen on television or what you've heard about "Mormons," it's not true that the mainstream LDS church promotes the practice of polygamy as part of its religion.

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Either way, I don't think the Katelyn from that TikTok video who the met the man at Walmart dating multiple women while engaged to be married is a Mormon. I didn't get Mormon vibes from her. I also don't think the guy in question is a Mormon either.

 

[Robert28]

She probably looked him up on one of those Facebook sites called “are we dating the same guy”.

 

[SW15]

She probably looked him up on one of those Facebook sites called “are we dating the same guy”.

He used a fake first name with her so I don't think that could have happened.

men want something strange from time to time, he will have his mind not in thirsty mode, so he will be a better husband.

Men want some strange from time to time. Most married men don't have enough game to make that a reality though. They are lucky for the mediocre to subpar monogamous wife they were able to get. They take that and focus on the rest of their lives. Those types of men never show up on forums like SoSuave.

A man that could get some strange while in a relationship is better off not marrying. There are other relationship models.

 

[corrector]

Not necessarily, men want something strange from time to time, he will have his mind not in thirsty mode, so he will be a better husband.

How would his mind be on thirsty mode if he already has someone and is engaged? Now it's from men want a woman in the first place to men want to lie and cheat and get other women behind her back? It looks more like depravity than anything you can really justify. Why even have a woman in the first place then?

 

[corrector]

He used a fake first name with her so I don't think that could have happened.

This is your enlightened version of game.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Don’t think this is sisterhood. Women love breaking up relationships.

 

[corrector]

You were married you should know how thirst feels like when your woman despises you and then you start to think about other women. Marriage is not good for men, its not our mating strategy

The guy in question was engaged to be married. My ex-wife was a totally different person before we got married. Before you get married, both parties are in their best behaviour. To be frank, while I was married once, you can say I was engaged twice. The first girl I was engaged to started acting up, did some background research with her and ended up breaking up with her. Obviously I married with my ex-wife.

The guy in the article is planning to be engaged and is already cheating behind her back. It's not 1 year into a marriage and you are getting one shock after another during that time, or several years with a dead bedroom where she's cheating emotionally or full-blown with other alpha guys, like how you are portraying it, but this is usually the best time of a good relationship (ie being engaged to be married) and he is taking her for granted to his own detriment. You are supposed to be very excited about marrying your future wife. If is already cheating with her before they are even married then it a red-flag and his fiancee should be aware of and it should be in her court if she wants to continue with him or not.

Honestly, I'm really trying to get the ethical reasoning around here as I don't get it sometimes. It's her right to know what she is getting into as well and if she wants to continue. To suggest he should conceal it or made some mistake somehow misses the point. A man is supposed to lead, take charge and make his intentions known not play cowardly games behind people's backs.

 

[Ricky]

This is a crazy story! Some guy with a girlfriend is doing approaches in the makeup aisle at Walmart. He got himself a date with a woman in the 3.5 - 4.5 range, who discovered he had a girlfriend. She located his girlfriend via social media. Apparently, he had actually cheated on her before.

I think Utah is relevant to this. Even in big city Salt Lake City, there is a different dating culture there as compared to more conventional larger cities in the USA. Salt Lake City has a high Mormon population. Mormons typically are married before 25 and start having children soon. Mormons also abstain from alcohol. The girl on TikTok that got approached in the makeup aisle at Walmart does not appear to be Mormon at all.

Utah Woman Realized The Man She Was On A Date With Is Engaged, So She Took To Social Media To Find & Alert His Fiancé (msn.com)

This reminds me that a woman friend in Buffalo poster about a Facebook group where women share the dirt on different men they have dated. Basically it is in part to catch cheaters

if i can find a link i will add later.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

This reminds me that a woman friend in Buffalo poster about a Facebook group where women share the dirt on different men they have dated. Basically it is in part to catch cheaters

if i can find a link i will add later.

I thought Bison were into grass and not dirt.

 

[Ricky]

A Buffalo and Niagara Falls Facebook group lets women know if they are dating the same man. It's called "Are We Dating the Same Guy?Buffalo 716 WNY" and it's intended to be a safe space for women. This is a private group that now has more than 43,000 members.Mar 20, 2023

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