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Using money to attract women without getting used

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If I focus I’m sure I can be making six figures in my thirties. At least 100k a year. Until then just being with escorts is fine for me. I only like women in their 20s, preferably mid 20s. My genetics make getting abs a big pain in the ass and that paired with the fact I will be over 30, my looks won’t be enough. I’m not a rap battler, so my “game” won’t be good enough. I’m going for using money to attract women, but I want to make sure I’m getting ***** from them if they are benefiting from my money. What’s the best way to do this?
 

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If I focus I’m sure I can be making six figures in my thirties. At least 100k a year. Until then just being with escorts is fine for me. I only like women in their 20s, preferably mid 20s. My genetics make getting abs a big pain in the ass and that paired with the fact I will be over 30, my looks won’t be enough. I’m not a rap battler, so my “game” won’t be good enough. I’m going for using money to attract women, but I want to make sure I’m getting ***** from them if they are benefiting from my money. What’s the best way to do this?
The bold part just sounds like lazy.

You're basically asking how to cook an egg without breaking the egg first. Showing off money is always followed by the risk of getting "used" by people in general, not just women. But you don't have to let them "use" you, do you? You have a brain, use it.
 

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The bold part just sounds like lazy.

You're basically asking how to cook an egg without breaking the egg first. Showing off money is always followed by the risk of getting "used" by people in general, not just women. But you don't have to let them "use" you, do you? You have a brain, use it.
If you can convince me that every man who is successful with women has an 8 pack, I will go on the only-spinach diet.
 

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If you can convince me that every man who is successful with women has an 8 pack, I will go on the only-spinach diet.
I didn't say this, you did: "every man who is successful with women has an 8 pack"
 

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very simple. don't let them have or keep your money. dangle it, but hang on to it.

they will be using you, but that's the deal you make. the point is to make sure you're using them also and they are not getting what you have and not giving what you want.

six figures are not that awesome in these days if your in USA. every man with even mid-level effort can get to that by 35 or 40. almost 6 figures is only provider game. but you can dangle that. it takes more to attempt to be awesome due to money.

save much of it and invest; age-old but still solid advice and invest in some skills such as some fighting style and hire a trainer to get started with the money. Doing that will help in several areas, and if its a good trainer they will have ideas for you also. If you haven't already used some of it to travel, exchange rates can be your friend if you want to moneymax.
 

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six figures are not that awesome in these days if your in USA. every man with even mid-level effort can get to that by 35 or 40. almost 6 figures is only provider game. but you can dangle that. it takes more to attempt to be awesome due to money.
I don't think getting to six figures by 35-40 is as easy as you make it seem. Nevertheless, it is a lesser important point.

Women don't give any special treatment to a man in his 30s making $100,000-$149,999. In certain circles, women expect that their prospective boyfriends earn that. It's taken for granted. So, to really impress women by using your annual income, it needs to be much higher than the low six figures. $150k is likely the minimum, but that probably doesn't impress them enough. The number is likely over $200k.
 

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I don't think getting to six figures by 35-40 is as easy as you make it seem. Nevertheless, it is a lesser important point.

Women don't give any special treatment to a man in his 30s making $100,000-$149,999. In certain circles, women expect that their prospective boyfriends earn that. It's taken for granted. So, to really impress women by using your annual income, it needs to be much higher than the low six figures. $150k is likely the minimum, but that probably doesn't impress them enough. The number is likely over $200k.
You can't even use it to tempt women in their 20s?
 

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If I focus I’m sure I can be making six figures in my thirties. At least 100k a year. Until then just being with escorts is fine for me. I only like women in their 20s, preferably mid 20s. My genetics make getting abs a big pain in the ass and that paired with the fact I will be over 30, my looks won’t be enough. I’m not a rap battler, so my “game” won’t be good enough. I’m going for using money to attract women, but I want to make sure I’m getting ***** from them if they are benefiting from my money. What’s the best way to do this?
I make well over 100K a year. I never have attempted to use it to attract women. Only people that feel they have no value to offer otherwise resort to that. It's the equivalent of buying women flowers and dinner on the first date. It reeks of desperation.
 

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I make well over 100K a year. I never have attempted to use it to attract women. Only people that feel they have no value to offer otherwise resort to that. It's the equivalent of buying women flowers and dinner on the first date. It reeks of desperation.
It’s my best bet
 

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If you fish with stinkbait, don't be surprised when you catch a catfish. And don't ***** that you didn't catch a trout..
 

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If I focus I’m sure I can be making six figures in my thirties. At least 100k a year. Until then just being with escorts is fine for me. I only like women in their 20s, preferably mid 20s. My genetics make getting abs a big pain in the ass and that paired with the fact I will be over 30, my looks won’t be enough. I’m not a rap battler, so my “game” won’t be good enough. I’m going for using money to attract women, but I want to make sure I’m getting ***** from them if they are benefiting from my money. What’s the best way to do this?
If you use your money as bait, you're gonna attract gold diggers. And these women know how to manipulate men like you. They know what you want and they know how to dangle it in front of you to get you to spend your money, then not give it to you.

Just because they look sweet and innocent doesn't mean that they don't know the deal.
 

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If you use your money as bait, you're gonna attract gold diggers. And these women know how to manipulate men like you. They know what you want and they know how to dangle it in front of you to get you to spend your money, then not give it to you.

Just because they look sweet and innocent doesn't mean that they don't know the deal.
So it will all be about outplaying them. It will be easier if I have a bargaining chip (the money and lifestyle.)
 

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I don't think getting to six figures by 35-40 is as easy as you make it seem. Nevertheless, it is a lesser important point.

Women don't give any special treatment to a man in his 30s making $100,000-$149,999. In certain circles, women expect that their prospective boyfriends earn that. It's taken for granted. So, to really impress women by using your annual income, it needs to be much higher than the low six figures. $150k is likely the minimum, but that probably doesn't impress them enough. The number is likely over $200k.
You can't even use it to tempt women in their 20s?
No, not really. At least not "conventionally". Most men 30-39 have problems with meeting 18-24 year olds, especially 18-22 year olds. Women 25-29 will not give much preferential treatment to a man in his 30s in the low $100ks. Your income needs to be much higher than that or you need high net worth from family money.
 

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So it will all be about outplaying them. It will be easier if I have a bargaining chip (the money and lifestyle.)
you can do that, but know that the women are naturally better at this game than you are. from the way your telling, the concept of plates will serve you well. if you must follow this path, then always have several women in line so that none have much leverage on you.

make sure you are in some social circle(s) before you have attracted some btch.
 

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I am going the opposite route. I have no prospects of financial success. I am working on my body.
not opposite at all, just another piece. do both.
 
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