myfriendblu
Master Don Juan
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Yea kev im with you...you don't need anything nice. Anything clean and shiny and newer than a 95 or above is good enough....
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Using a vehicle to attract women?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
i got a bmw and honestly i hate having it sometimes. I never mention it to anyone or brag about it or anything... but some of my friends always find a way to mention it in front of girls.
haha dirty bastards trying to get social proof off me and my ride. Oh well.
haha dirty bastards trying to get social proof off me and my ride. Oh well.
MrCode
Senior Don Juan
I've had a Lexus IS300 for four and half years now, and while it isn't a Dodge Viper, it is a decent car. Of course I bought it mostly for myself but of course there is always a bit of the flash factor.
Now I've never used in a "trolling for chics" fashion, but overall I'd say it makes little difference. I actually never mention my job or car or other bragging materialistic things like that, and in fact women are usually pleasantly surprised when they see my car. But I don't think anyone really makes a big deal out of it.
As any fairly advanced DJ knows, in the big scheme looks, clothes, cars and other flashy sh*t make little difference if you don't have the right attitude (aka game.) Of course you shouldn't be a bum either.
Now I've never used in a "trolling for chics" fashion, but overall I'd say it makes little difference. I actually never mention my job or car or other bragging materialistic things like that, and in fact women are usually pleasantly surprised when they see my car. But I don't think anyone really makes a big deal out of it.
As any fairly advanced DJ knows, in the big scheme looks, clothes, cars and other flashy sh*t make little difference if you don't have the right attitude (aka game.) Of course you shouldn't be a bum either.
SomethingCreative
Don Juan
I think the only thing having a nice ride is really good for in terms of impressing women is after you already get to know them. If you meet someone and you two hit it off, seeing that you have a nice car is just another thing you have going in your favor. That way, she likes your character and knows you are at least somewhat successful which would be an ideal situation.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Black Panther®
Don Juan
It does not matter what you have if you do not know how to talk to women correcly.
I mean yes it helps but that only does like 25percent of the job if that much.
They are not going to run up to you just cause you pushing a car with sprewells and tvs on each headrest, or cause you got a $10000 chain, and the best clothes on, you still got to do the approach, etc.. etc... etc...
so breaking it down it doesnt really do much other than showing them "he got money and its trynna show it off" or "he trynna show off he got money but we really know that he still lives with his mamma or in a tored up house/apartment/etc..."
I mean yes it helps but that only does like 25percent of the job if that much.
They are not going to run up to you just cause you pushing a car with sprewells and tvs on each headrest, or cause you got a $10000 chain, and the best clothes on, you still got to do the approach, etc.. etc... etc...
so breaking it down it doesnt really do much other than showing them "he got money and its trynna show it off" or "he trynna show off he got money but we really know that he still lives with his mamma or in a tored up house/apartment/etc..."