"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Using a vehicle to attract women?

myfriendblu

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Originally posted by 00Kevin
when you are in your teens and eary 20's, just having a car is a plus in a girls eyes.
Yea kev im with you...you don't need anything nice. Anything clean and shiny and newer than a 95 or above is good enough....
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i got a bmw and honestly i hate having it sometimes. I never mention it to anyone or brag about it or anything... but some of my friends always find a way to mention it in front of girls.

haha dirty bastards trying to get social proof off me and my ride. Oh well.
 

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When you are in your late 20's the kind of car you have reflects on your character more.
 

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I've had a Lexus IS300 for four and half years now, and while it isn't a Dodge Viper, it is a decent car. Of course I bought it mostly for myself but of course there is always a bit of the flash factor.

Now I've never used in a "trolling for chics" fashion, but overall I'd say it makes little difference. I actually never mention my job or car or other bragging materialistic things like that, and in fact women are usually pleasantly surprised when they see my car. But I don't think anyone really makes a big deal out of it.

As any fairly advanced DJ knows, in the big scheme looks, clothes, cars and other flashy sh*t make little difference if you don't have the right attitude (aka game.) Of course you shouldn't be a bum either. ;)
 
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I think the only thing having a nice ride is really good for in terms of impressing women is after you already get to know them. If you meet someone and you two hit it off, seeing that you have a nice car is just another thing you have going in your favor. That way, she likes your character and knows you are at least somewhat successful which would be an ideal situation.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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A good ride attracts AWs so they can brag to their friends about the ride that their man has.

So, it will get you sex. It won't get you a meaningful girl.
 

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It does not matter what you have if you do not know how to talk to women correcly.

I mean yes it helps but that only does like 25percent of the job if that much.

They are not going to run up to you just cause you pushing a car with sprewells and tvs on each headrest, or cause you got a $10000 chain, and the best clothes on, you still got to do the approach, etc.. etc... etc...

so breaking it down it doesnt really do much other than showing them "he got money and its trynna show it off" or "he trynna show off he got money but we really know that he still lives with his mamma or in a tored up house/apartment/etc..."
 
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