“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Using a girl's friend to extract information?

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AverageHero

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There is this girl I work with, that I like. She may be wrong for me, but she may be a good time in bed too. She is extremely flirty with everyone, but especially with me. We have numerous private jokes etc, and get along well.

She is a bit of an attention seeker, however I was looking to see what a female work colleague thought about the girl in question, and to try and extract her point of view, or any info on the target girl.

Any advice to give me on this?

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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blueline

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just ask her out for coffee. if she comes out, then you don't need to creep around behind her back like that.
 
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Tyson420

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No. Don't do that. That's AFC.

Like whats the problem? YOU get to know HER, the thing about dating is that you have to invest time and monetary resources no matter what, don't grill your friend for answers.

Like are you limited on time? Clearly not since you're here.
 
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Mike32ct

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Don't go there.

You will be adding fuel to the "workplace gossip" fire.

It WILL get back to this girl that you asked about her, and it will creep her out. I don't care how much you trust this female friend. You being interested in and/or curious about another female at work is too juicy a topic for any female to keep to herself. Remember the workplace is 8th grade on steroids. Never reveal who your crush is.

Like the others said, get to know this girl yourself. If you decide to invite her out, tell no one.
 
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Warrior74

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You do know that women hate women and women love to gossip. You do understand you are feeding the beast by asking about her. You do know she will resent your obvious stupidity here. Even if she doesn't. You've tipped your hand and any sense of mystery or alphaness is out the door.

The only time I've asked a girl about another girl is if it was an ex FB I was still friends with who knew the chic. I have only 1 former FB like that who is in my corner. I'd never ask another woman unless I really wasn't interested and just starting sh1t for fun.

Don't do it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Don't do it, word eventually gets around once a woman gets hold of it. I have a rule and which is why I don't divulge secrets to women - Women's lips are bigger than their lips.
 
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