"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Using A Fake Pic On Dating Site?

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think the pic is fair game . The fishies use makeup, accessories, filters sometimes even fake pics themselves. Make sure the pic is similar to your shape and skin complection . You can always say you were more cut last summer .
 

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Why is your arm floppy?
when I was 22yo I had a devastating motorcycle accident. I sideswiped a car, my left arm accordion'd into an oncoming car. Arm shattered in 6 places and hand nearly liquified. I broke my back, neck and collarbone... destroying 2 nerves in my spine also going to my left arm. My arm and hand are 100% paralyzed.
I suffer phantom pain and the pain of a brachial plexus injury, which is a hell onto itself.

not only the pain, but I am rejected at first sight because I am very asymmetrical in appearance. I cant run or gym or salsa dance.

So when I hear you b1tch your bitches, it looks ugly... worse than this - https://preview.ibb.co/cJwiSx/IMG_20180323_060049_1.jpg

I have women chasing me.... its not your body, face or car that gets women Richard... it is the MAN inside.
 
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when I was 22yo I had a devastating motorcycle accident. I sideswiped a car, my left arm accordion'd into an oncoming car. Arm shattered in 6 places and hand nearly liquified. I broke my back, neck and collarbone... destroying 2 nerves in my spine also going to my left arm. My arm and hand are 100% paralyzed.
I suffer phantom pain and the pain of a brachial plexus injury, which is a hell onto itself.

not only the pain, but I am rejected at first sight because I am very asymmetrical in appearance. I cant run or gym or salsa dance.

So when I hear you b1tch your bitches, it looks ugly... worse than this - https://preview.ibb.co/cJwiSx/IMG_20180323_060049_1.jpg

I have women chasing me.... its not your body, face or car that gets women Richard... it is the MAN inside.
I have a spinal cord injury, too. My left hand is about 50% paralyzed. I also can't feel pain on the right half of my body.

Who do you think wakes up every day and works on my house flips? Me. Not anyone else.

I still think that making lots of money will be what will attract women to me more than anything else. I don't even necessarily want that to be true, but I think that it is.
 

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never once did a woman ask me what kind of car I drove, never ask my salary. I have never owned a new car and never paid more than 5k for one (my bmw e36).
I drive a beat to crap golf now.

I still think that making lots of money will be what will attract women to me more than anything else. I don't even necessarily want that to be true, but I think that it is.
the trick is to think its not
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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