"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Using A Fake Pic On Dating Site?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I think the pic is fair game . The fishies use makeup, accessories, filters sometimes even fake pics themselves. Make sure the pic is similar to your shape and skin complection . You can always say you were more cut last summer .
 

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Why is your arm floppy?
when I was 22yo I had a devastating motorcycle accident. I sideswiped a car, my left arm accordion'd into an oncoming car. Arm shattered in 6 places and hand nearly liquified. I broke my back, neck and collarbone... destroying 2 nerves in my spine also going to my left arm. My arm and hand are 100% paralyzed.
I suffer phantom pain and the pain of a brachial plexus injury, which is a hell onto itself.

not only the pain, but I am rejected at first sight because I am very asymmetrical in appearance. I cant run or gym or salsa dance.

So when I hear you b1tch your bitches, it looks ugly... worse than this - https://preview.ibb.co/cJwiSx/IMG_20180323_060049_1.jpg

I have women chasing me.... its not your body, face or car that gets women Richard... it is the MAN inside.
 
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when I was 22yo I had a devastating motorcycle accident. I sideswiped a car, my left arm accordion'd into an oncoming car. Arm shattered in 6 places and hand nearly liquified. I broke my back, neck and collarbone... destroying 2 nerves in my spine also going to my left arm. My arm and hand are 100% paralyzed.
I suffer phantom pain and the pain of a brachial plexus injury, which is a hell onto itself.

not only the pain, but I am rejected at first sight because I am very asymmetrical in appearance. I cant run or gym or salsa dance.

So when I hear you b1tch your bitches, it looks ugly... worse than this - https://preview.ibb.co/cJwiSx/IMG_20180323_060049_1.jpg

I have women chasing me.... its not your body, face or car that gets women Richard... it is the MAN inside.
I have a spinal cord injury, too. My left hand is about 50% paralyzed. I also can't feel pain on the right half of my body.

Who do you think wakes up every day and works on my house flips? Me. Not anyone else.

I still think that making lots of money will be what will attract women to me more than anything else. I don't even necessarily want that to be true, but I think that it is.
 

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never once did a woman ask me what kind of car I drove, never ask my salary. I have never owned a new car and never paid more than 5k for one (my bmw e36).
I drive a beat to crap golf now.

I still think that making lots of money will be what will attract women to me more than anything else. I don't even necessarily want that to be true, but I think that it is.
the trick is to think its not
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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