"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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using a cute puppy dog to pick up girls..does that work??

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I remember my bro used to have a beautfil dog, anytime he'd walk it ppl in the street would usually praise it and say "oh waht a beautiful dog, etc. especially girls, they have a soft spot for animals

i'd say it probably works
 

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Yall cant be serious...Thats the corniest sh1t ever...You might as well get a baby and walk around with it too, lol...
 

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I don't use her for initial pick ups, but when a woman visits me at home, my cat works overtime to make her feel comfortable. Easy cool points since I've trained my cat to do tricks that a dog usually does. It definitely makes a lasting impression for the woman.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Damn, imagine the opportunities.


She: Oooh look, what a cute dog!
You: Oooh look [dogs name] , what a cute girl!

She: What's his/her name?
You: His/her name is [insert name], ... What's yours? Smile and shake her hand.

She: How old is he/she?
He: He'll be [insert age] in two days. Wanna come to the birthday party?

More ideas? :)
 

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Originally posted by TheInfamousCBear
Yall cant be serious...Thats the corniest sh1t ever...You might as well get a baby and walk around with it too, lol...
women love babies...lol but yah a dog is a good ice breaker
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Come on, oldest trick in the book! It pretty much covers all the ice breakers. 1. You make a connection (dog lovers, or at least acting it) 2. She's comfortable with you (come on, look what you're holding). Smooth sailing from there.
 

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yeah dog helps initial convo. People are shy when it comes to flirting so they masked it by talking about other things.
 

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My dog is a babe magnet! You can't do much better for an icebreaker than a small, cute, non-threatening dog.

I loved my cat, but he was a jealous prick when it came to women. He peed on one girlfriend in her sleep. Never heard a woman curse like that before. He used to sit on the end of the couch and glare at women I had over, with the look on his face like: "Wait until you're asleep, b1tch!"
 

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Originally posted by GirlCrazy

I loved my cat, but he was a jealous prick when it came to women. He peed on one girlfriend in her sleep. Never heard a woman curse like that before. He used to sit on the end of the couch and glare at women I had over, with the look on his face like: "Wait until you're asleep, b1tch!"
shouldve gotten your cat fixed, must've been one horny mofo...staring at your women and marking their territory by pissiing on them...shiiiit..

unfortunately i cant show my cat off as i got my female cat fixed a year ago and it's one big ASS p*****. anybody new that comes over it just hides in the corner. maybe it was a mistake to get it fixed..but gotta do it sometime..


actually dogs are great icebreakers, imagine standing in an elevator with a girl/guy. usually you guys wont have something to talk about but with the dog, that person will have something to say and you can respond back.
 

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I dont know how well dogs work out for actually getting numbers. I do know you get a lot more attention for one though(my dog was a little german shepherd, but i was too embarassed at the time to try for phone number...years ago)

in the house that i live in, there was this guy who had owned a cat. When we would have a party, he would talk to the girl, and then invite her up to see his cat. So much pvssy!(no pun intended) I expect you could initiate a lot of kino(leaning in close to the girl as she is petting your cat, or her leaning close to you)

A great icebreaker if you like pets
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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