"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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using a cute puppy dog to pick up girls..does that work??

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I remember my bro used to have a beautfil dog, anytime he'd walk it ppl in the street would usually praise it and say "oh waht a beautiful dog, etc. especially girls, they have a soft spot for animals

i'd say it probably works
 

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Yall cant be serious...Thats the corniest sh1t ever...You might as well get a baby and walk around with it too, lol...
 

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I don't use her for initial pick ups, but when a woman visits me at home, my cat works overtime to make her feel comfortable. Easy cool points since I've trained my cat to do tricks that a dog usually does. It definitely makes a lasting impression for the woman.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Damn, imagine the opportunities.


She: Oooh look, what a cute dog!
You: Oooh look [dogs name] , what a cute girl!

She: What's his/her name?
You: His/her name is [insert name], ... What's yours? Smile and shake her hand.

She: How old is he/she?
He: He'll be [insert age] in two days. Wanna come to the birthday party?

More ideas? :)
 

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Originally posted by TheInfamousCBear
Yall cant be serious...Thats the corniest sh1t ever...You might as well get a baby and walk around with it too, lol...
women love babies...lol but yah a dog is a good ice breaker
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Come on, oldest trick in the book! It pretty much covers all the ice breakers. 1. You make a connection (dog lovers, or at least acting it) 2. She's comfortable with you (come on, look what you're holding). Smooth sailing from there.
 

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yeah dog helps initial convo. People are shy when it comes to flirting so they masked it by talking about other things.
 

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My dog is a babe magnet! You can't do much better for an icebreaker than a small, cute, non-threatening dog.

I loved my cat, but he was a jealous prick when it came to women. He peed on one girlfriend in her sleep. Never heard a woman curse like that before. He used to sit on the end of the couch and glare at women I had over, with the look on his face like: "Wait until you're asleep, b1tch!"
 

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Originally posted by GirlCrazy

I loved my cat, but he was a jealous prick when it came to women. He peed on one girlfriend in her sleep. Never heard a woman curse like that before. He used to sit on the end of the couch and glare at women I had over, with the look on his face like: "Wait until you're asleep, b1tch!"
shouldve gotten your cat fixed, must've been one horny mofo...staring at your women and marking their territory by pissiing on them...shiiiit..

unfortunately i cant show my cat off as i got my female cat fixed a year ago and it's one big ASS p*****. anybody new that comes over it just hides in the corner. maybe it was a mistake to get it fixed..but gotta do it sometime..


actually dogs are great icebreakers, imagine standing in an elevator with a girl/guy. usually you guys wont have something to talk about but with the dog, that person will have something to say and you can respond back.
 

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I dont know how well dogs work out for actually getting numbers. I do know you get a lot more attention for one though(my dog was a little german shepherd, but i was too embarassed at the time to try for phone number...years ago)

in the house that i live in, there was this guy who had owned a cat. When we would have a party, he would talk to the girl, and then invite her up to see his cat. So much pvssy!(no pun intended) I expect you could initiate a lot of kino(leaning in close to the girl as she is petting your cat, or her leaning close to you)

A great icebreaker if you like pets
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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