"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Doggystyle

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I'm always curious about other peoples user names when I'm reading there posts and where they where derived from.
Mine is because it's my favourite position...obviously! But I was also listening to a snoop dogg album when I was signing up, so it popped into my head.
Would be interested to hear the story behind everyone elses, i'm sure there are some more interesting stories than my boring one anyway!
I read some names and think "what the **** did that name come from!"
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Taviii

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My names is Octavian so my friends call me Tavi, but when I first had contact with the internet, mostly mirc at internet caffes it was always taken so I added a couple of i at the end of the name :p
 

S1NN3R

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When I was in 7th grade, I got caught by a priest making out with a girl from my class in the girl's bathroom. He thought a good punishment would be to drag me out in front of the entire cafeteria and try to embarass me by scolding me there. He kept calling me a sinner and saying that I was "walking in the shadow of the devil". Naturally, I wasn't embarassed, I was proud as a peacock, I just made out with Kalynne Angelopoulos! One of the hottest 7th graders ever! And now the whole school knew! Rock! :D

The next day, my friend's were all giving me a ribbing calling me Shadow or Sinner, and it just kinda stuck. Permanently. Even my motorcycle racing leathers said Shadow on the back of them.

And I threw the 1 and 3 in because "SINNER" as a license place was taken, but "S1NN3R" wasn't.
 

seanchai

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Seanchai is the Irish word for storyteller. I'd like to be an incredible storyteller as part of my life goal of 100% positive interactions. A girl told me I tell really good stories this week, which I think is one of the best compliments one can get. Plus it's a cool word. Shawn-uh-kee.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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MrS

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"Kalynne Angelopoulos", sounds distinctly Greek.
Way to go with the fellow mediterraneans.
Mine is MrSmall, but to protect my precious identity, I put it as MrS here. My brother calls me Small since he's olde,r and it just stuck. Almost everyone, in real life, calls me small.
 

The_flying_dutchman

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<--------- I'm dutch, and I can fly :rockon:
 

S1NN3R

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MrS said:
"Kalynne Angelopoulos", sounds distinctly Greek.
Way to go with the fellow mediterraneans.
Yeah, gotta dig the Greek girls. She's in Cali now but we still keep it touch every so often. She's a supa-hottie now. :D
 

mltpl_rndmns1

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mltpl_rndmns1....... coz i m as random and varied as u can think of. plus adding multiple to it makes it more random. so there ya go.....
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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MrS

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I'd hit it!
Gotta dig us mediterranean types :)
Speaking of which, I need a tan.
 

TheLazy

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Im just a really lazy person about most things im not very interested in.

But when it comes to Gym lol.... i'd go everyday if my body could handle it.
 

Fender

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Fender- Best guitar brand...ever!!!

Wierd, cuz I don't actually OWN a fender guitar, but what the heck. Doesn't stop me from loving em'
 

djtdot

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dj = DJ doh
tdot = toronto :p
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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KarmaSutra

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Mine comes from two places.#1 My favorite CAO cigar is the KarmaSutra Splash mango infused robusto.

#2 I've mentally mapped the Kama Sutra and I'm extremely proficient with it's positions.
 

sexy_kuta

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sexy kuta -

sexy dog in punjabi(my language)
 

chickenlegs03

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haha, cool thread

anyway, my username is from back some years ago when i was younger, my little sister would make fun of me for being too skinny. other kids at school would also. they called me "chicken legs" because my legs were thin like that. i've been a toothpick practically my whole life. but hey, i'm bulking now, and i'll probably be 'elephant legs' in a year or so.
 
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My name used to be Dead_Skin_Mask13 I think and I got banned and so I came back with Dimebag_Darrell because he's my favorite guitarist and now that he passed away I feel honored to carry his name as my s/n

My real name is Rigo
 

blinkwatt

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blinkwatt is from two thoughts,blink-182 my favorite band growing up, and watt was the first word that popped into my mind creating an user id.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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