"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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TheMonkeyKing

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Sharing the sites, blogs and forums I have found particularly useful, even just for insight, and would be grateful if others would share any that aren't listed.

Be aware that some of these are just for insight and I obviously do not adhere to all general view points; rather tend to compare and contrast to draw my own conclusions. Those that are for comparison and insight to the feminine imperative are toward the bottom of the list.


SoSuave

http://www.sosuave.com/

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php

The Rational Male

http://therationalmale.com/

Chateau Heartiste

http://heartiste.wordpress.com/

The Mask and Rose

http://themaskandrose.wordpress.com/

Stage Two

http://stagetwo.wordpress.com/

Roosh

http://www.rooshvforum.com/


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The Date Doctor

http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/

Love Shack

https://www.loveshack.org/
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Cant believe I missed out the Book of Pook.... :eek:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A personal guideline

1. Know what you want [Marriage, relationship(s), sex ? Be honest with yourself]

(Golden Rule : "Do unto others as you would wish them to do unto you if your positions were reversed.”).

2. Know how to get it and apply.
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Stay focussed.
 
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No more mr nice guy by Dr Glover

drglover.com/no-more-mr-nice-guy.htlm
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Konduit said:
Without a doubt, other than here on sosuave, the wisdom I've found on Shark's blog has had some of the biggest impact on my life and improvement in social dynamics: http://www.solvemygirlproblems.com/
Best one by far. Shark is the man. His book, The Black Flag, is second to none.


A few of my faves:

http://www.blackdragonblog.com/ - Lots of good info about online dating and dating younger women (if you're 30+)

http://donlak.com/ - Donlak is a womanizer. He speaks the truth.

http://realmademen.wordpress.com/ - Assanova took his site down, but someone preserved his blog posts.

https://www.youtube.com/user/coachcoreywayne/videos - Corey Wayne has good vids on Youtube.
 
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No doubt the book of Pook is absolute gold.

One that I have to get back into was braddock - ultimate text game.

I didnt realise till 3 years later that it got me laid by an absolute stunning girl (my AFC, stuffed it up.) Definetly need to get back into it.
 

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oh this is a great website for social skills- not just with women but with people in general. i definitely recommend it.

succeedsocially.com
 
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