"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sharing the sites, blogs and forums I have found particularly useful, even just for insight, and would be grateful if others would share any that aren't listed.

Be aware that some of these are just for insight and I obviously do not adhere to all general view points; rather tend to compare and contrast to draw my own conclusions. Those that are for comparison and insight to the feminine imperative are toward the bottom of the list.


SoSuave

http://www.sosuave.com/

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php

The Rational Male

http://therationalmale.com/

Chateau Heartiste

http://heartiste.wordpress.com/

The Mask and Rose

http://themaskandrose.wordpress.com/

Stage Two

http://stagetwo.wordpress.com/

Roosh

http://www.rooshvforum.com/


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The Date Doctor

http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/

Love Shack

https://www.loveshack.org/
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Cant believe I missed out the Book of Pook.... :eek:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A personal guideline

1. Know what you want [Marriage, relationship(s), sex ? Be honest with yourself]

(Golden Rule : "Do unto others as you would wish them to do unto you if your positions were reversed.”).

2. Know how to get it and apply.
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Stay focussed.
 
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No more mr nice guy by Dr Glover

drglover.com/no-more-mr-nice-guy.htlm
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Konduit said:
Without a doubt, other than here on sosuave, the wisdom I've found on Shark's blog has had some of the biggest impact on my life and improvement in social dynamics: http://www.solvemygirlproblems.com/
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Best one by far. Shark is the man. His book, The Black Flag, is second to none.


A few of my faves:

http://www.blackdragonblog.com/ - Lots of good info about online dating and dating younger women (if you're 30+)

http://donlak.com/ - Donlak is a womanizer. He speaks the truth.

http://realmademen.wordpress.com/ - Assanova took his site down, but someone preserved his blog posts.

https://www.youtube.com/user/coachcoreywayne/videos - Corey Wayne has good vids on Youtube.
 
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No doubt the book of Pook is absolute gold.

One that I have to get back into was braddock - ultimate text game.

I didnt realise till 3 years later that it got me laid by an absolute stunning girl (my AFC, stuffed it up.) Definetly need to get back into it.
 
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oh this is a great website for social skills- not just with women but with people in general. i definitely recommend it.

succeedsocially.com
 
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