"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TheMonkeyKing

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Sharing the sites, blogs and forums I have found particularly useful, even just for insight, and would be grateful if others would share any that aren't listed.

Be aware that some of these are just for insight and I obviously do not adhere to all general view points; rather tend to compare and contrast to draw my own conclusions. Those that are for comparison and insight to the feminine imperative are toward the bottom of the list.


SoSuave

http://www.sosuave.com/

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php

The Rational Male

http://therationalmale.com/

Chateau Heartiste

http://heartiste.wordpress.com/

The Mask and Rose

http://themaskandrose.wordpress.com/

Stage Two

http://stagetwo.wordpress.com/

Roosh

http://www.rooshvforum.com/


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The Date Doctor

http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/

Love Shack

https://www.loveshack.org/
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TheMonkeyKing

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Cant believe I missed out the Book of Pook.... :eek:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A personal guideline

1. Know what you want [Marriage, relationship(s), sex ? Be honest with yourself]

(Golden Rule : "Do unto others as you would wish them to do unto you if your positions were reversed.”).

2. Know how to get it and apply.
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Stay focussed.
 
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No more mr nice guy by Dr Glover

drglover.com/no-more-mr-nice-guy.htlm
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Konduit said:
Without a doubt, other than here on sosuave, the wisdom I've found on Shark's blog has had some of the biggest impact on my life and improvement in social dynamics: http://www.solvemygirlproblems.com/
Best one by far. Shark is the man. His book, The Black Flag, is second to none.


A few of my faves:

http://www.blackdragonblog.com/ - Lots of good info about online dating and dating younger women (if you're 30+)

http://donlak.com/ - Donlak is a womanizer. He speaks the truth.

http://realmademen.wordpress.com/ - Assanova took his site down, but someone preserved his blog posts.

https://www.youtube.com/user/coachcoreywayne/videos - Corey Wayne has good vids on Youtube.
 
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No doubt the book of Pook is absolute gold.

One that I have to get back into was braddock - ultimate text game.

I didnt realise till 3 years later that it got me laid by an absolute stunning girl (my AFC, stuffed it up.) Definetly need to get back into it.
 

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oh this is a great website for social skills- not just with women but with people in general. i definitely recommend it.

succeedsocially.com
 
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