"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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used to a routine, how to change that?

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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it has been 4-5 days without anything going, and i just pm'ed her "happy new year" for fun's sake. and we got a conversation going online, so yeah then i asked if she's free any day before next week. she said she doesn't think so, and i said make it next week then. she says she'll let me know, AGAIN. haha.

i said "no, haha." then she laughed too.

then i said,

"awww, i would have loved to know you better in person."

"keep in touch"

she went offline. LOL. what now.
 
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Dude,what does this girl have to do in order for you to understand that she's not interested in you? Every time you try to spend time with her she gives you some excuse as to why she can't do it. It's 2009,a new year,and you're still dragging around this dead hope from last year of being with this girl. In case you haven't realized it yet,you're in the friendzone. It's over with. While you home alone fantasizing about this girl,she in her boyfriend's arms. I would say that she's moved on from this,but for her,there never was any "this" to move on from. She's the one who's going forward with her dating life while you're stuck on the outside looking in at her with her boyfriend.
 
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aaron2fast said:
it has been 4-5 days without anything going, and i just pm'ed her "happy new year" for fun's sake. and we got a conversation going online, so yeah then i asked if she's free any day before next week. she said she doesn't think so, and i said make it next week then. she says she'll let me know, AGAIN. haha.

i said "no, haha." then she laughed too.

then i said,

"awww, i would have loved to know you better in person."

"keep in touch"

she went offline. LOL. what now.
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what now? how about - you don't ever talk to this girl again!!!!

you're not even friendzoned... you're media-communication net friend zoned... you mean nothing to her except for an occasional ego boast!

for the last time - if she really wanted to be with you a fraction of how much you want to be with her - she'd make time for you... her interest in you is non-existent...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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