"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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used to a routine, how to change that?

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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it has been 4-5 days without anything going, and i just pm'ed her "happy new year" for fun's sake. and we got a conversation going online, so yeah then i asked if she's free any day before next week. she said she doesn't think so, and i said make it next week then. she says she'll let me know, AGAIN. haha.

i said "no, haha." then she laughed too.

then i said,

"awww, i would have loved to know you better in person."

"keep in touch"

she went offline. LOL. what now.
 
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Dude,what does this girl have to do in order for you to understand that she's not interested in you? Every time you try to spend time with her she gives you some excuse as to why she can't do it. It's 2009,a new year,and you're still dragging around this dead hope from last year of being with this girl. In case you haven't realized it yet,you're in the friendzone. It's over with. While you home alone fantasizing about this girl,she in her boyfriend's arms. I would say that she's moved on from this,but for her,there never was any "this" to move on from. She's the one who's going forward with her dating life while you're stuck on the outside looking in at her with her boyfriend.
 
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aaron2fast said:
it has been 4-5 days without anything going, and i just pm'ed her "happy new year" for fun's sake. and we got a conversation going online, so yeah then i asked if she's free any day before next week. she said she doesn't think so, and i said make it next week then. she says she'll let me know, AGAIN. haha.

i said "no, haha." then she laughed too.

then i said,

"awww, i would have loved to know you better in person."

"keep in touch"

she went offline. LOL. what now.
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what now? how about - you don't ever talk to this girl again!!!!

you're not even friendzoned... you're media-communication net friend zoned... you mean nothing to her except for an occasional ego boast!

for the last time - if she really wanted to be with you a fraction of how much you want to be with her - she'd make time for you... her interest in you is non-existent...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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