playerone
Senior Don Juan
i have a feeling she's going to just decide to stick around with her bf. LOL. but i don't care. >.<
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
used to a routine, how to change that?
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playerone
Senior Don Juan
it has been 4-5 days without anything going, and i just pm'ed her "happy new year" for fun's sake. and we got a conversation going online, so yeah then i asked if she's free any day before next week. she said she doesn't think so, and i said make it next week then. she says she'll let me know, AGAIN. haha.
i said "no, haha." then she laughed too.
then i said,
"awww, i would have loved to know you better in person."
"keep in touch"
she went offline. LOL. what now.
i said "no, haha." then she laughed too.
then i said,
"awww, i would have loved to know you better in person."
"keep in touch"
she went offline. LOL. what now.
Igetit!
Moderator
Dude,what does this girl have to do in order for you to understand that she's not interested in you? Every time you try to spend time with her she gives you some excuse as to why she can't do it. It's 2009,a new year,and you're still dragging around this dead hope from last year of being with this girl. In case you haven't realized it yet,you're in the friendzone. It's over with. While you home alone fantasizing about this girl,she in her boyfriend's arms. I would say that she's moved on from this,but for her,there never was any "this" to move on from. She's the one who's going forward with her dating life while you're stuck on the outside looking in at her with her boyfriend.
bukowski_merit
Master Don Juan
aaron2fast said:it has been 4-5 days without anything going, and i just pm'ed her "happy new year" for fun's sake. and we got a conversation going online, so yeah then i asked if she's free any day before next week. she said she doesn't think so, and i said make it next week then. she says she'll let me know, AGAIN. haha.
i said "no, haha." then she laughed too.
then i said,
"awww, i would have loved to know you better in person."
"keep in touch"
she went offline. LOL. what now.
what now? how about - you don't ever talk to this girl again!!!!
you're not even friendzoned... you're media-communication net friend zoned... you mean nothing to her except for an occasional ego boast!
for the last time - if she really wanted to be with you a fraction of how much you want to be with her - she'd make time for you... her interest in you is non-existent...
playerone
Senior Don Juan
nice analysis.
maybe i just need to delete her from my contacts.
maybe i just need to delete her from my contacts.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.