"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Used for sex
- Thread starter iqqi
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
no, wait , that wasn't me....
in a galaxy ,far far away.... hahahaha
iqqi
Master Don Juan
Like I said, if I left something out, feel free to post your experience, instead of just flaming the thread without really saying shiat but "iqqi you SUCK! and so does your brain!"
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
-wouldn't have a problem with that if it did - unless i actually CARED about the girl more then any other at that time. If that happened, id feel ........very bad.
ready123
Master Don Juan
I always considered social proof as nothing more than a part of attraction game. When you get to LTR territory, attraction game holds less weight.Sandow said:
If you want an LTR, ask yourself what characteristics should a potential boyfriend be able to convey to qualify as long-term material. Are you able to make the girl you're into feel like there's a real connection between the two of you?
Rollo Tomassi said:
LoL...Very nice.
I have been used by women, but I don't think that sex was the ultimate goal that they had in mind (as much as I hate to admit that). I believe it had alot more to do with money, or trying to trap me into a relationship with them. Or both.