"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Used for sex
- Thread starter iqqi
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
no, wait , that wasn't me....
in a galaxy ,far far away.... hahahaha
iqqi
Master Don Juan
Like I said, if I left something out, feel free to post your experience, instead of just flaming the thread without really saying shiat but "iqqi you SUCK! and so does your brain!"
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
-wouldn't have a problem with that if it did - unless i actually CARED about the girl more then any other at that time. If that happened, id feel ........very bad.
ready123
Master Don Juan
I always considered social proof as nothing more than a part of attraction game. When you get to LTR territory, attraction game holds less weight.Sandow said:
If you want an LTR, ask yourself what characteristics should a potential boyfriend be able to convey to qualify as long-term material. Are you able to make the girl you're into feel like there's a real connection between the two of you?
Rollo Tomassi said:
LoL...Very nice.
I have been used by women, but I don't think that sex was the ultimate goal that they had in mind (as much as I hate to admit that). I believe it had alot more to do with money, or trying to trap me into a relationship with them. Or both.