"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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- Thread starter iqqi
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
no, wait , that wasn't me....
in a galaxy ,far far away.... hahahaha
iqqi
Master Don Juan
Like I said, if I left something out, feel free to post your experience, instead of just flaming the thread without really saying shiat but "iqqi you SUCK! and so does your brain!"
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
-wouldn't have a problem with that if it did - unless i actually CARED about the girl more then any other at that time. If that happened, id feel ........very bad.
ready123
Master Don Juan
I always considered social proof as nothing more than a part of attraction game. When you get to LTR territory, attraction game holds less weight.Sandow said:
If you want an LTR, ask yourself what characteristics should a potential boyfriend be able to convey to qualify as long-term material. Are you able to make the girl you're into feel like there's a real connection between the two of you?
Rollo Tomassi said:
LoL...Very nice.
I have been used by women, but I don't think that sex was the ultimate goal that they had in mind (as much as I hate to admit that). I believe it had alot more to do with money, or trying to trap me into a relationship with them. Or both.