"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Used for sex
- Thread starter iqqi
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
no, wait , that wasn't me....
in a galaxy ,far far away.... hahahaha
iqqi
Master Don Juan
Like I said, if I left something out, feel free to post your experience, instead of just flaming the thread without really saying shiat but "iqqi you SUCK! and so does your brain!"
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
-wouldn't have a problem with that if it did - unless i actually CARED about the girl more then any other at that time. If that happened, id feel ........very bad.
ready123
Master Don Juan
I always considered social proof as nothing more than a part of attraction game. When you get to LTR territory, attraction game holds less weight.Sandow said:
If you want an LTR, ask yourself what characteristics should a potential boyfriend be able to convey to qualify as long-term material. Are you able to make the girl you're into feel like there's a real connection between the two of you?
Rollo Tomassi said:
LoL...Very nice.
I have been used by women, but I don't think that sex was the ultimate goal that they had in mind (as much as I hate to admit that). I believe it had alot more to do with money, or trying to trap me into a relationship with them. Or both.