"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Use their own game against them

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Probably mentioned many times, but i think that its a really good strategy and doing it accidently has yielded good results for me..eg:

1. flake on them first, first date u tell them ur sick or some random excuse woman do to flake on u !
2. u tell them first ur not looking for a relationship, u just 'want to be friends for now' ..but still flirt with them!!
3. u complain how other girls are always trying to get wit u and act psycho and other bs
4. any other games woman play, do it first!!


I've done number 1 few times with amazing results! ..and the reason why i believe it is powerfull cause woman put some much effort in looking hot (makeup, hair etc), if u flake on them then its like all that effort was for nothing. You would think it would make them angry at u but as David Deangelo might put it...this technique is counter-intuitive !

Try it out !!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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that takes some discipline. I know most guys couldnt pass up on a date with a woman let alone cancel on them. how many guys you know that could get a date and then do that. most other guys would think "your stupit" she wants to go out with you and think your crazy. I seen it done before. some girl gave me her number. the guy with me and most men think thats a guarantee and I told him I am not calling her and he had a fit. thats why men are on string with woman.
 

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To sum it up, it's all about "taking control" of your destiny. Counter-intuitive practices work particularly well since it creates a unique experience for women -- making the relationship more refreshing.

However, if you continuously bail out on her, then obviously, you'd be striking yourself out.
 

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Unprez said:
Probably mentioned many times, but i think that its a really good strategy and doing it accidently has yielded good results for me..eg:

1. flake on them first, first date u tell them ur sick or some random excuse woman do to flake on u !
2. u tell them first ur not looking for a relationship, u just 'want to be friends for now' ..but still flirt with them!!
3. u complain how other girls are always trying to get wit u and act psycho and other bs
4. any other games woman play, do it first!!


I've done number 1 few times with amazing results! ..and the reason why i believe it is powerfull cause woman put some much effort in looking hot (makeup, hair etc), if u flake on them then its like all that effort was for nothing. You would think it would make them angry at u but as David Deangelo might put it...this technique is counter-intuitive !

Try it out !!
I don't deny that those tactics work but you are missing the point

Those tactics and games, while they are somewhat effective are girly

Why not just be a man? You'll end up getting the girl and you'll be much happier than trying to pysch people out
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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