"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Use their own game against them

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Probably mentioned many times, but i think that its a really good strategy and doing it accidently has yielded good results for me..eg:

1. flake on them first, first date u tell them ur sick or some random excuse woman do to flake on u !
2. u tell them first ur not looking for a relationship, u just 'want to be friends for now' ..but still flirt with them!!
3. u complain how other girls are always trying to get wit u and act psycho and other bs
4. any other games woman play, do it first!!


I've done number 1 few times with amazing results! ..and the reason why i believe it is powerfull cause woman put some much effort in looking hot (makeup, hair etc), if u flake on them then its like all that effort was for nothing. You would think it would make them angry at u but as David Deangelo might put it...this technique is counter-intuitive !

Try it out !!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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thedude4242

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that takes some discipline. I know most guys couldnt pass up on a date with a woman let alone cancel on them. how many guys you know that could get a date and then do that. most other guys would think "your stupit" she wants to go out with you and think your crazy. I seen it done before. some girl gave me her number. the guy with me and most men think thats a guarantee and I told him I am not calling her and he had a fit. thats why men are on string with woman.
 

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To sum it up, it's all about "taking control" of your destiny. Counter-intuitive practices work particularly well since it creates a unique experience for women -- making the relationship more refreshing.

However, if you continuously bail out on her, then obviously, you'd be striking yourself out.
 

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Unprez said:
Probably mentioned many times, but i think that its a really good strategy and doing it accidently has yielded good results for me..eg:

1. flake on them first, first date u tell them ur sick or some random excuse woman do to flake on u !
2. u tell them first ur not looking for a relationship, u just 'want to be friends for now' ..but still flirt with them!!
3. u complain how other girls are always trying to get wit u and act psycho and other bs
4. any other games woman play, do it first!!


I've done number 1 few times with amazing results! ..and the reason why i believe it is powerfull cause woman put some much effort in looking hot (makeup, hair etc), if u flake on them then its like all that effort was for nothing. You would think it would make them angry at u but as David Deangelo might put it...this technique is counter-intuitive !

Try it out !!
I don't deny that those tactics work but you are missing the point

Those tactics and games, while they are somewhat effective are girly

Why not just be a man? You'll end up getting the girl and you'll be much happier than trying to pysch people out
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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