"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Use their own game against them

Unprez

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Probably mentioned many times, but i think that its a really good strategy and doing it accidently has yielded good results for me..eg:

1. flake on them first, first date u tell them ur sick or some random excuse woman do to flake on u !
2. u tell them first ur not looking for a relationship, u just 'want to be friends for now' ..but still flirt with them!!
3. u complain how other girls are always trying to get wit u and act psycho and other bs
4. any other games woman play, do it first!!


I've done number 1 few times with amazing results! ..and the reason why i believe it is powerfull cause woman put some much effort in looking hot (makeup, hair etc), if u flake on them then its like all that effort was for nothing. You would think it would make them angry at u but as David Deangelo might put it...this technique is counter-intuitive !

Try it out !!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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thedude4242

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that takes some discipline. I know most guys couldnt pass up on a date with a woman let alone cancel on them. how many guys you know that could get a date and then do that. most other guys would think "your stupit" she wants to go out with you and think your crazy. I seen it done before. some girl gave me her number. the guy with me and most men think thats a guarantee and I told him I am not calling her and he had a fit. thats why men are on string with woman.
 

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To sum it up, it's all about "taking control" of your destiny. Counter-intuitive practices work particularly well since it creates a unique experience for women -- making the relationship more refreshing.

However, if you continuously bail out on her, then obviously, you'd be striking yourself out.
 

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Unprez said:
Probably mentioned many times, but i think that its a really good strategy and doing it accidently has yielded good results for me..eg:

1. flake on them first, first date u tell them ur sick or some random excuse woman do to flake on u !
2. u tell them first ur not looking for a relationship, u just 'want to be friends for now' ..but still flirt with them!!
3. u complain how other girls are always trying to get wit u and act psycho and other bs
4. any other games woman play, do it first!!


I've done number 1 few times with amazing results! ..and the reason why i believe it is powerfull cause woman put some much effort in looking hot (makeup, hair etc), if u flake on them then its like all that effort was for nothing. You would think it would make them angry at u but as David Deangelo might put it...this technique is counter-intuitive !

Try it out !!
I don't deny that those tactics work but you are missing the point

Those tactics and games, while they are somewhat effective are girly

Why not just be a man? You'll end up getting the girl and you'll be much happier than trying to pysch people out
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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