"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Use the holidays to your advantage guys...

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Girls hate to be alone on this holiday, so use the period right after Christmas up to New Years as happy hunting.

Now I do have to say one of the girls I've been dating cancelled our Christmas and New Years plans. If I needed any other proof that she was a heartless BYTCH this was it, but her telling me about her past and other actions she took should have told me that already.

Plus if a girl doesn't like "It's a Wonderful Life" there is something wrong with her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Another thing...

Now is a good time to re-establish contact with any hot women you haven't spoken to for a long time. If you have their email or number, a simple Christmas or New Year greeting is a good icebreaker that gives them a good excuse to get back in touch.

I've managed to get back in touch with a number of women who all (except for my ex- who gave me a very cold response) seemed very pleased to hear from me and start talking again. I have been on one date and arranged two more from doing this.
 
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Here's another idea.... how about people stop chasing some air head girls during the festive season and concentrate on family and friends.
 
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Good point Big Willy.
But human nature dictates a little holiday loving.

I'm glad I had a plan 2 for new years who really was my plan 1 anyways in terms of how I feel about her.
 
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You're funny Ricky. You say girls don't like being alone yet one of them cancelled your christmas/new years plans. Any day always seems the same day to me.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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Well I did have to be honest that one of the girls broke this rule.

I think the majority wouldn't.

Like i said, every once in a while you run into a major bytch.

This one I'll forever remember as The BYTCH who stole Christmas!

Which is ironic because we watched that movie on our last date!
The grinch that is!
 
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Lol rick you are a funny mofo.

Anyway im gonna hollar at this one girl ive had my eye on after xmas.
 
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