"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Use the holidays to your advantage guys...

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Girls hate to be alone on this holiday, so use the period right after Christmas up to New Years as happy hunting.

Now I do have to say one of the girls I've been dating cancelled our Christmas and New Years plans. If I needed any other proof that she was a heartless BYTCH this was it, but her telling me about her past and other actions she took should have told me that already.

Plus if a girl doesn't like "It's a Wonderful Life" there is something wrong with her.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Another thing...

Now is a good time to re-establish contact with any hot women you haven't spoken to for a long time. If you have their email or number, a simple Christmas or New Year greeting is a good icebreaker that gives them a good excuse to get back in touch.

I've managed to get back in touch with a number of women who all (except for my ex- who gave me a very cold response) seemed very pleased to hear from me and start talking again. I have been on one date and arranged two more from doing this.
 
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Here's another idea.... how about people stop chasing some air head girls during the festive season and concentrate on family and friends.
 
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Good point Big Willy.
But human nature dictates a little holiday loving.

I'm glad I had a plan 2 for new years who really was my plan 1 anyways in terms of how I feel about her.
 
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You're funny Ricky. You say girls don't like being alone yet one of them cancelled your christmas/new years plans. Any day always seems the same day to me.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well I did have to be honest that one of the girls broke this rule.

I think the majority wouldn't.

Like i said, every once in a while you run into a major bytch.

This one I'll forever remember as The BYTCH who stole Christmas!

Which is ironic because we watched that movie on our last date!
The grinch that is!
 
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Lol rick you are a funny mofo.

Anyway im gonna hollar at this one girl ive had my eye on after xmas.
 
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