"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Leporello

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I've noticed that when I'm getting sex regularly I'm pretty horny most of the time.

Then, if for whatever reason that stops, I'll be super-horny for a week or two and then my sex drive will just sink, and when I have the opportunity to have sex again it'll take me a couple of tries before I can really get into it again with no problems.

Is that common? It's kind of a pain.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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are you jokeing? LOL

dude sex drive has nothing to do with getting laid often.. its your mental state of mine which is why sex is 90% mental and about 10% physical.
 

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christz said:
are you jokeing? LOL

dude sex drive has nothing to do with getting laid often.. its your mental state of mine which is why sex is 90% mental and about 10% physical.
sex drive is partly mental too. I never said it was purely one or the other.
 

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DjDan said:
LMAO. kiddo, learn your biology.

testostrone production raises significantly for the following 7 days after you have sex.

also, your testostrone levels rise a lot more when you're having sex with a woman vs jackin off, even though physically it's the same thing (blowing your wad)
dude before you start correcting me on biology and calling me kiddo.. understand that while it may raise your testostrone it doesn't do it enough to enact ANY effects..

dude takeing Propecia a fu*kin hair restoration medication raises your testosrone levels by 12%.. which means nothing.. so your saying popping a hair loss pill is the same as haveing sex? well damn man maybe i should go get a perscription
 

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christz said:
dude before you start correcting me on biology and calling me kiddo.. understand that while it may raise your testostrone it doesn't do it enough to enact ANY effects..

dude takeing Propecia a fu*kin hair restoration medication raises your testosrone levels by 12%.. which means nothing.. so your saying popping a hair loss pill is the same as haveing sex? well damn man maybe i should go get a perscription
taking propecia also increases your estrogen levels, which kills some people's libidos and erections.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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leporello,

****ing def raises your testosterone and makes you more horny. sex is very different from masturbation, psychologically and physically.
 
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