"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Leporello

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I've noticed that when I'm getting sex regularly I'm pretty horny most of the time.

Then, if for whatever reason that stops, I'll be super-horny for a week or two and then my sex drive will just sink, and when I have the opportunity to have sex again it'll take me a couple of tries before I can really get into it again with no problems.

Is that common? It's kind of a pain.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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christz

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are you jokeing? LOL

dude sex drive has nothing to do with getting laid often.. its your mental state of mine which is why sex is 90% mental and about 10% physical.
 

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christz said:
are you jokeing? LOL

dude sex drive has nothing to do with getting laid often.. its your mental state of mine which is why sex is 90% mental and about 10% physical.
sex drive is partly mental too. I never said it was purely one or the other.
 

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DjDan said:
LMAO. kiddo, learn your biology.

testostrone production raises significantly for the following 7 days after you have sex.

also, your testostrone levels rise a lot more when you're having sex with a woman vs jackin off, even though physically it's the same thing (blowing your wad)
dude before you start correcting me on biology and calling me kiddo.. understand that while it may raise your testostrone it doesn't do it enough to enact ANY effects..

dude takeing Propecia a fu*kin hair restoration medication raises your testosrone levels by 12%.. which means nothing.. so your saying popping a hair loss pill is the same as haveing sex? well damn man maybe i should go get a perscription
 

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christz said:
dude before you start correcting me on biology and calling me kiddo.. understand that while it may raise your testostrone it doesn't do it enough to enact ANY effects..

dude takeing Propecia a fu*kin hair restoration medication raises your testosrone levels by 12%.. which means nothing.. so your saying popping a hair loss pill is the same as haveing sex? well damn man maybe i should go get a perscription
taking propecia also increases your estrogen levels, which kills some people's libidos and erections.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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leporello,

****ing def raises your testosterone and makes you more horny. sex is very different from masturbation, psychologically and physically.
 
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