"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Leporello

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I've noticed that when I'm getting sex regularly I'm pretty horny most of the time.

Then, if for whatever reason that stops, I'll be super-horny for a week or two and then my sex drive will just sink, and when I have the opportunity to have sex again it'll take me a couple of tries before I can really get into it again with no problems.

Is that common? It's kind of a pain.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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christz

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are you jokeing? LOL

dude sex drive has nothing to do with getting laid often.. its your mental state of mine which is why sex is 90% mental and about 10% physical.
 

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christz said:
are you jokeing? LOL

dude sex drive has nothing to do with getting laid often.. its your mental state of mine which is why sex is 90% mental and about 10% physical.
sex drive is partly mental too. I never said it was purely one or the other.
 

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DjDan said:
LMAO. kiddo, learn your biology.

testostrone production raises significantly for the following 7 days after you have sex.

also, your testostrone levels rise a lot more when you're having sex with a woman vs jackin off, even though physically it's the same thing (blowing your wad)
dude before you start correcting me on biology and calling me kiddo.. understand that while it may raise your testostrone it doesn't do it enough to enact ANY effects..

dude takeing Propecia a fu*kin hair restoration medication raises your testosrone levels by 12%.. which means nothing.. so your saying popping a hair loss pill is the same as haveing sex? well damn man maybe i should go get a perscription
 

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christz said:
dude before you start correcting me on biology and calling me kiddo.. understand that while it may raise your testostrone it doesn't do it enough to enact ANY effects..

dude takeing Propecia a fu*kin hair restoration medication raises your testosrone levels by 12%.. which means nothing.. so your saying popping a hair loss pill is the same as haveing sex? well damn man maybe i should go get a perscription
taking propecia also increases your estrogen levels, which kills some people's libidos and erections.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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leporello,

****ing def raises your testosterone and makes you more horny. sex is very different from masturbation, psychologically and physically.
 
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