She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Yes because this puppy dog is going to be the next Hitler. Please...
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
And you are truly funny... I think that if one dog attacks another dog, then dog #2 knows that he is in danger of becoming "dog chow".iqqi said:
You show me something in nature that doesn't kill or consume, in one way or another, in order to survive. I dare you.Quiksilver said:
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
you're saying a guy who kills a dog will rape a little girl? wow, you are very sadly mistaken and have no proof. Killing a cute little puppy doesn't make you a sociopath. Sure, I wouldn't do it on purpose but if I accidentally killed a dog or puppy or kitten I honestly wouldn't think about it for more than one second. It's not the same as hurting a living breathing human.joekerr31 said:http://youtube.com/watch?v=7vYW_uaVz3k
the only thing im saying is that if you were around me and took a puppy like the one in the above video and threw it off a cliff I break your face into a million pieces.
if you took a baby and threw it off a cliff I would ALSO break your face into a million pieces.
moreover, the only thing im saying is that something is seriously psychologically broken in someone that could kill / torture a puppy (or any man-friendly animal for that matter). and saying 'oh well if thats the price of having soldiers' is absurd! a soldier that gets a kick out of killing a puppy is going to also get a kick out of stuff like r*ping iraqi children and other sick perversed actions.
also, creating these false choice scenarios (baby versus puppy) is pointless because its only designed to cause arguments. everyone would save the baby - but there is nothign wrong with wanting to save both and there is nothing wrong with people caring so much about both that they are torn having to even think about choosing either.
man i wish people like you were born with a tattoo on your forehead or something. that way when i saw you walking down the street i could knock you the f*ck out.ezily said:
You show me ONE animal in nature that kills for pleasure. I dare you.
Do you understand the word Intent?
Tell me about it...joekerr31 said:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
accidentally would be fine. if you accidentally hit a cat that runs into the street, whatever.ezily said:
you'd hurt a human and not an animal? That's messed up. I didn't say I would do it. But if somebody else wants to that's his business.joekerr31 said:man i wish people like you were born with a tattoo on your forehead or something. that way when i saw you walking down the street i could knock you the f*ck out.
'kill the dog if it makes you happy' - i mean, wtf.
what makes me laugh is how guys like this think they are tough and call people who care about animals 'wusses' - but i tell ya, this same guy, if he were face to face with me would keep his mouth shut like a good little chicken because if he didn't i'd knock his f*cking teeth out
I honestly don't have a problem with that, but several people on here have stated that they cared more for the ****ing dog than a human being in the very same situation.joekerr31 said:
I value a dogs life and a humans life as equal. Tell me exactly why you would value the life of a human over a dog?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Haha, someone's emotional. Be more like a newscaster.joekerr31 said:
depends. most humans are more valuable than a dog. someone like yourself is less valuable. if i had to save you or the dog, i would save hte dog, because its highly doubtful you'll bring any value to the world we live in. while the dog might make some kid or old lady happy.ezily said:
No. and good comeback.joekerr31 said:
If you believe all that, then the matrix has you!!!ezily said:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.