“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Urges to contact ex bpd

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PianoGuy33

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She is still my neighbor. When I walk home, I see her apartment lights on and feel the need to contact her. I don't even like her I just miss grabbing her ass. How do I deal with this urge to contact her?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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If she has BPD and liked you, she will usually find a way to contact you. Unless shes standing naked outside your appartment, theres no point having sex with her. There are so many other girls in the world who doesnt have cluster B personalities, hook up with them and spin some plates instead. Being eager about getting back to a girl you KNOW have Borderline is one of the most desperate things you can do at this point.
 
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Ya good point I didn't contact her, last night I drank and wasn't thinking clearly.
 
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