"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Urges to contact ex bpd

PianoGuy33

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She is still my neighbor. When I walk home, I see her apartment lights on and feel the need to contact her. I don't even like her I just miss grabbing her ass. How do I deal with this urge to contact her?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Hydrak

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If she has BPD and liked you, she will usually find a way to contact you. Unless shes standing naked outside your appartment, theres no point having sex with her. There are so many other girls in the world who doesnt have cluster B personalities, hook up with them and spin some plates instead. Being eager about getting back to a girl you KNOW have Borderline is one of the most desperate things you can do at this point.
 

PianoGuy33

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Ya good point I didn't contact her, last night I drank and wasn't thinking clearly.
 
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