"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She is still my neighbor. When I walk home, I see her apartment lights on and feel the need to contact her. I don't even like her I just miss grabbing her ass. How do I deal with this urge to contact her?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If she has BPD and liked you, she will usually find a way to contact you. Unless shes standing naked outside your appartment, theres no point having sex with her. There are so many other girls in the world who doesnt have cluster B personalities, hook up with them and spin some plates instead. Being eager about getting back to a girl you KNOW have Borderline is one of the most desperate things you can do at this point.
 
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Ya good point I didn't contact her, last night I drank and wasn't thinking clearly.
 
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