Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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urgent: two foreign girls leaving in a couple of days

pyros

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So I was in a salsa club with a friend of mine. Then I saw I chick I liked so I went to ask her to dance but at the last sec another friend of mine grabbed me, said hello etc etc. In the end both my friend and this chick new each other, cause it seems they met a few weeks ago in another salsa club.

My friend is super beta, and has a lot of girl friends but has sex with none of them...cause he's the perfect nice guy all girls avoid sexually.
The thing is that this chick lets call her G1 was there with another chick G2. Both are foreigners, and both are 23.
I noticed that G1 liked me, but when I started to talk to G2 I noticed she liked me more, but I find G1 more attractive.

Anyway, when my friend noticed they were 'interested' in talking to me...he told me that both had a boyfriend so I should not bother (yeah right...). It could be true, it could be a lie. It doesnt matter anyway.

So there I was, talking to these two chicks, cracking jokes etc, while my friend was there listening to us, and trying to participate.
G1 said she is studying here and G2 is just visiting G1 and leaves in three days.
When my friend asked me to take them a pic, G1 told me to ask that to someone else so I could be in the picture as well.

After less than an hour when we were leaving this salsa club, G2 (the one I like less) asked me if I wanted to go with them to party tomorrow night, I agreed.
A few minutes later I was talking to G1 and I got her number, so in the end I told them I would text them tomorrow so we can set something. My beta friend excluded himself (lmao)...I thought he would want to join us but, nope, he just throwed the towel.

Now, the thing is that I like G1 more, but I would not mind banging G2 as well. It seems tomorrow night we will go out to party, G1, G2 and me so...how do I manage to bang G1? if I go for G1, G2 will feel bad and excluded I think...I dunno, but as I said I'd like to bang G1...or G2 if not possible.

It seems G1 rents her own place, and now G2 is staying there until she leaves in a few days.

Tips to get to bang G1? or maybe G2? I dont have a place of my own so I must either go to their place, or to my car.
I should escalate once we are in the club but...with whom? G1 or G2?


Suggested plan of action?

Thanks.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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invite them both back to your place and bang both of them...you'd be surprised how many of them will go for it...
 

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Depends on what u want and what u are willing to risk...

Thus is going to sound really generic, but just drink with them and have fun...a threesome could be very possible. You can bet they are already subconsciously competing over you and talking bout you if the vibes were as good as you say they are.

Also, if they are actual good friends with each other, which is pretty rare, they will likely already have one or the other green lighted for you as to not to cause a rift....so just drink and have fun see which one is coming on to ya. I have girls turn me down in this same scenario because their friend liked me too much and they had already agreed to it and she didn't want to cause bad feelings between them...ended up losing both of em. So just have fun and take notice which one is acting more sexual.... Hopefully both of em.

But if they are inviting you to a party right before they leave one or both if them are def interested in banging.

Personally, if there is interest there, I would still aim for the best looking one though...that's me though...I'm pretty aggressive. Safer option is relax have fun let em come to u.
 

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do I bring a wingman...? or no need?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bad grammar. Poor spelling. I cannot reply to this post.

Ha, I'm kidding. Seriously, though, flip a coin, use a Magic 8-Ball, do something like that if you really can't decide.
 

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so in the end it was girl1, girl2, two other female friends, and me. In other words, me and four females :D

In short: I made out with girl1 (the one I liked more), grinded, touched her boobs, ass etc almost since the moment we entered the club; before that we all went to have dinner and to have a drink.
It go really hot so I said to girl1 to go back to her place but she said she did not want to leave her friends. Alright...

I got a lot of looks from other females around me because I was with four girls, and I was making out with one of them the whole night. Talk about preselection lol.
One blonde chick came next to me and smiled at me while I was hugging and kissing girl1. It seems she wanted to enjoy me as well. Pity. She kept there staring at me for a while.

We had a very fun time I have to say. These chicks were pretty cool, nice and fun.

When I dropped them home girl1 was feeling sick, she had stuffy nose and said she felt a little bit cold. Anyway we made out a little bit more, and the rest of the chicks thanked me for the night.

It went very good, except for the fact that I did not bang her, but hey, I did my best, and I think I'll be seing her anyway.
I cannot think of anything I did "wrong": I was fun, I had drinks in my car so they could get drunk, I kino escalated a lot, I danced with three of these girls, I teased them all, called them brats etc

It went very nice from the begining.


P.S.

Just for the record, I did not pay for anything, I mean, I just bought a cheap rum bottle, a coke bottle, some ice, and some plastic glasses so they could get drunk before entering the club lol. I had everything under control so to speak.

These chicks are from 22 to 23 years old, not too young, not too old.
 

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Mike32ct said:
No, absolutely no wing.

Either one or both of these girls bhangs you. You don't need or want more sausage in the mix. The wingman thing fails far more often then it succeeds because good wings are very rare.

yes, I agree. My best buddie is not the best wingman...I can remember a few times where he screwed everything up because he said something, or did something the girls didn't like and I was like: wtf??:eek:

One time I was flirting with three girls, then I introduced them to my buddie...but he was (drunk) acting to ****y, teased them too much...so he became an as-shole, they got offended and left.
Another time I was making out with one girl and her female friend and my friend were staring at us so I had to stop and yell to my buddie: "kiss her you idiot!" so they kissed but he had very bad breath so the girl did not like it and grabbed my girl and left.

You get the idea...
 

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pyros said:
so in the end it was girl1, girl2, two other female friends, and me. In other words, me and four females :D

In short: I made out with girl1 (the one I liked more), grinded, touched her boobs, ass etc almost since the moment we entered the club; before that we all went to have dinner and to have a drink.
It go really hot so I said to girl1 to go back to her place but she said she did not want to leave her friends. Alright...

I got a lot of looks from other females around me because I was with four girls, and I was making out with one of them the whole night. Talk about preselection lol.
One blonde chick came next to me and smiled at me while I was hugging and kissing girl1. It seems she wanted to enjoy me as well. Pity. She kept there staring at me for a while.

We had a very fun time I have to say. These chicks were pretty cool, nice and fun.

When I dropped them home girl1 was feeling sick, she had stuffy nose and said she felt a little bit cold. Anyway we made out a little bit more, and the rest of the chicks thanked me for the night.

It went very good, except for the fact that I did not bang her, but hey, I did my best, and I think I'll be seing her anyway.
I cannot think of anything I did "wrong": I was fun, I had drinks in my car so they could get drunk, I kino escalated a lot, I danced with three of these girls, I teased them all, called them brats etc

It went very nice from the begining.


P.S.

Just for the record, I did not pay for anything, I mean, I just bought a cheap rum bottle, a coke bottle, some ice, and some plastic glasses so they could get drunk before entering the club lol. I had everything under control so to speak.

These chicks are from 22 to 23 years old, not too young, not too old.
Proud of you Pyros...you went for it!!!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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